A Bride's Dream (Song of Songs 3)

Do we dream faithfully of our one spouse on earth? Does monogamous marital loyalty mirror our devotion to Christ? Let’s look at Song of Songs 3.

Did the Bride dream of looking for her Bridegroom? Do we dream of meeting Christ face to face some day?

Upon my bed, night after night, I looked for the one whom I love with all my heart. I looked for him but couldn’t find him. “I will rise now and go all around the city, through the streets and the squares. I will look for the one whom I love with all my heart.” I looked for him but couldn’t find him. (Song 3:1-2 CEB)

Did she finally find him after asking the night security guards? Is Jesus the cornerstone of our faith?

I even asked the guards patrolling the town, “Have you seen the one I love so much?” Right after that, I found him. I held him and would not let go until I had taken him to the home of my mother. (Song 3:3-4 CEV)

Does the Bride warn other women not to allow love to awaken in their hearts too early, but to wait for that one right person?

I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem, by the gazelles or the does of the field, that you not stir up or awaken love until it pleases. (Song 3:5 ESV)

Did that warning include Solomon, carried on a royal sedan chair, guarded by 60 warriors, an extremely wise but equally selfish man, not satisfied with one faithful wife?

What is this coming up from the wilderness like columns of smoke, scented with myrrh and frankincense from every fragrant powder of the merchant? It is Solomon’s royal litter surrounded by 60 warriors from the mighty of Israel. All of them are skilled with swords and trained in warfare. Each has his sword at his side to guard against the terror of the night. (Song 3:6-8 HCSB)

Would a thousand fancy wedding days to Solomon distract our Bride from her one true love? Would the impressive riches of this world distract us from the love of Christ?

King Solomon made the sedan chair for himself from the trees of Lebanon. He made its posts of silver, its back of gold. Its seat was purple, and its interior was lovingly inlaid by the young women of Jerusalem. Come out, young women of Zion, and see King Solomon with the crown with which his mother crowned him on his wedding day—his day of great delight. (Song 3:9-11 ISV)

Will we allow temptation to make us unfaithful to just one earthly spouse? Does God’s creation reveal a glory greater than any short-lived grandeur tempting us away from our loyalty to Christ?

Consider the lilies how they grow: they toil not, they spin not; and yet I say unto you, that Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. (Luke 12:27 KJV)

Do we dream faithfully of our one spouse on earth? Does monogamous marital loyalty mirror our devotion to Christ? You decide!