A Groom's Love (Song of Songs 4)

Can the loving faithfulness of a monogamous groom for his one bride help us understand the love of Christ for the Church? Let’s look at Song of Songs 4.

Is this Solomon reevaluating his selfish, polygamous life and contemplating a life of faithfulness to one woman, or is this the shepherd bridegroom of his Shulamite bride speaking? Opinions are divided, so what is important to learn here about faithfulness in marriage and Christ’s love for His Church?

Behold, you are beautiful, my darling, Behold, you are beautiful! Your eyes are like doves behind your veil; Your hair is like a flock of goats That have leapt down from Mount Gilead. Your teeth are like a flock of newly shorn ewes Which have come up from their washing, All of which bear twins, And not one among them has lost her young. Your lips are like a scarlet thread, And your mouth is lovely. Your temples are like a slice of a pomegranate Behind your veil. Your neck is like the tower of David, Built with rows of stones On which are hung one thousand shields, All the small shields of the mighty men. Your two breasts are like two fawns, Twins of a gazelle Which feed among the lilies. Until the day breathes And the shadows flee, I will go my way to the mountain of myrrh And to the hill of frankincense. (Song 4:1-6 LSB)

How is this ideal bridegroom more like a faithful husband and like Christ’s love for the Church than the fickle, regretful polygamy of Solomon?

You are altogether beautiful, my darling, And there is no blemish on you. Come with me from Lebanon, my bride, You shall come with me from Lebanon. You shall come down from the summit of Amana, From the summit of Senir and Hermon, From the dens of lions, From the mountains of leopards. You have enchanted my heart, my sister, my bride; You have enchanted my heart with a single glance of your eyes, With a single strand of your necklace. How beautiful is your love, my sister, my bride! How much sweeter is your love than wine, And the fragrance of your oils Than that of all kinds of balsam oils! Your lips drip honey, my bride; Honey and milk are under your tongue, And the fragrance of your garments is like the fragrance of Lebanon. A locked garden is my sister, my bride, A locked spring, a sealed fountain. Your branches are an orchard of pomegranates With delicious fruits, henna with nard plants, Nard and saffron, spice reed and cinnamon, With all the trees of frankincense, Myrrh, and aloes, along with all the finest balsam oils. You are a garden spring, A well of fresh water, And flowing streams from Lebanon. (Song 4:7-15 NASB)

How does the bride answer her lover, her husband? Do we invite Christ into our churches with such love?

Awake, north wind, and come, south wind! Blow on my garden, that its fragrance may spread everywhere. Let my beloved come into his garden and taste its choice fruits. (Song 4:16 NIV)

How did Jesus set the example for every man, of a loving husband to His Bride, the Church?

Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. (Eph 5:25-28 NKJV)

Can the loving faithfulness of a monogamous groom for his one bride help us understand the love of Christ for the Church? You decide!

A Bride's Dream (Song of Songs 3)

Do we dream faithfully of our one spouse on earth? Does monogamous marital loyalty mirror our devotion to Christ? Let’s look at Song of Songs 3.

Did the Bride dream of looking for her Bridegroom? Do we dream of meeting Christ face to face some day?

Upon my bed, night after night, I looked for the one whom I love with all my heart. I looked for him but couldn’t find him. “I will rise now and go all around the city, through the streets and the squares. I will look for the one whom I love with all my heart.” I looked for him but couldn’t find him. (Song 3:1-2 CEB)

Did she finally find him after asking the night security guards? Is Jesus the cornerstone of our faith?

I even asked the guards patrolling the town, “Have you seen the one I love so much?” Right after that, I found him. I held him and would not let go until I had taken him to the home of my mother. (Song 3:3-4 CEV)

Does the Bride warn other women not to allow love to awaken in their hearts too early, but to wait for that one right person?

I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem, by the gazelles or the does of the field, that you not stir up or awaken love until it pleases. (Song 3:5 ESV)

Did that warning include Solomon, carried on a royal sedan chair, guarded by 60 warriors, an extremely wise but equally selfish man, not satisfied with one faithful wife?

What is this coming up from the wilderness like columns of smoke, scented with myrrh and frankincense from every fragrant powder of the merchant? It is Solomon’s royal litter surrounded by 60 warriors from the mighty of Israel. All of them are skilled with swords and trained in warfare. Each has his sword at his side to guard against the terror of the night. (Song 3:6-8 HCSB)

Would a thousand fancy wedding days to Solomon distract our Bride from her one true love? Would the impressive riches of this world distract us from the love of Christ?

King Solomon made the sedan chair for himself from the trees of Lebanon. He made its posts of silver, its back of gold. Its seat was purple, and its interior was lovingly inlaid by the young women of Jerusalem. Come out, young women of Zion, and see King Solomon with the crown with which his mother crowned him on his wedding day—his day of great delight. (Song 3:9-11 ISV)

Will we allow temptation to make us unfaithful to just one earthly spouse? Does God’s creation reveal a glory greater than any short-lived grandeur tempting us away from our loyalty to Christ?

Consider the lilies how they grow: they toil not, they spin not; and yet I say unto you, that Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. (Luke 12:27 KJV)

Do we dream faithfully of our one spouse on earth? Does monogamous marital loyalty mirror our devotion to Christ? You decide!

A Bride's Praise (Song of Songs 2)

How much do we love our spouse? How much do we love Jesus? Let’s look at Song of Songs 2.

How does the Bride describe the love of her husband for her?

I am the rose of Sharon, and the lily of the valleys. (Song 2:1 KJV)

How does the husband respond to His Bride’s description of His love for her?

Like a lily among the thorns, So is my darling among the daughters. (Song 2:2 LSB)

How does the Bride describe her love for her lover, her husband? Is our marriage like this?

Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest, So is my beloved among the young men. In his shade I took great delight and sat down, And his fruit was sweet to my taste. He has brought me to his banquet hall, And his banner over me is love. Refresh me with raisin cakes, Sustain me with apples, Because I am lovesick. His left hand is under my head, And his right hand embraces me. (Song 2:3-6 NASB)

How considerate are we in our marriage? Is the Bride quiet while her young husband sleeps, not wanting to disturb Him?

Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you by the gazelles and by the does of the field: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires. (Song 2:7 NIV)

How does the Bride picture her husband coming to her?

Ah, I hear my lover coming! He is leaping over the mountains, bounding over the hills. My lover is like a swift gazelle or a young stag. Look, there he is behind the wall, looking through the window, peering into the room. (Song 2:8-9 NLT)

What did her beloved Husband suggest to His dear wife?

My beloved spoke, and said to me, “Rise up, my love, my beautiful one, and come away. For behold, the winter is past. The rain is over and gone. The flowers appear on the earth. The time of the singing has come, and the voice of the turtledove is heard in our land. The fig tree ripens her green figs. The vines are in blossom. They give out their fragrance. Arise, my love, my beautiful one, and come away.” (Song 2:10-13 WEB)

Does the Bride request of her Husband to see Him, to have Him perform a small task?

My dove—in the rock crevices, hidden in the cliff face—let me catch sight of you; let me hear your voice! The sound of your voice is sweet, and the sight of you is lovely.” Catch foxes for us—those little foxes that spoil vineyards, now that our vineyards are in bloom! (Song 2:14-15 CEB)

Does the young Bride desire to watch like seeing a deer as her Husband returns to her?

My lover is mine, and I am his. He browses among the lilies. Before the dawn breezes blow and the night shadows flee, return to me, my love, like a gazelle or a young stag on the rugged mountains. (Song 2:16-17 NLT)

How much ought we, as members of the Church that Jesus will marry, love Jesus?

If you love your father or mother or even your sons and daughters more than me, you are not fit to be my disciples. (Mat 10:37)

How much do we love our spouse? How much do we love Jesus? You decide!

A Bride's Love (Song 1)

Is the greatest song ever written, one that pictures the marriage of the Lamb to His Bride the Church? Let’s begin in Song of Songs 1.

Does this most excellent of songs picture Jesus and His love for us, His Bride?

The song of songs, which is Solomon’s. Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth—For your love is better than wine. Because of the fragrance of your good ointments, Your name is ointment poured forth; Therefore the virgins love you. Draw me away! We will run after you. The king has brought me into his chambers. We will be glad and rejoice in you. We will remember your love more than wine. (Song 1:1-4 NKJV)

Though the Church is darkened by persecution and the abuse of forced labor, is she still beautiful to Her Savior?

I am dark but beautiful, O women of Jerusalem—dark as the tents of Kedar, dark as the curtains of Solomon’s tents. Don’t stare at me because I am dark—the sun has darkened my skin. My brothers were angry with me; they forced me to care for their vineyards, so I couldn’t care for myself—my own vineyard. (Song 1:5-6 NLT)

Does the Church seek the companionship of Jesus during the heat of the day?

Tell me, you whom my soul loves, where you graze your flock, where you rest them at noon; for why should I be as one who is veiled beside the flocks of your companions? (Song 1:7 WEB)

Does Jesus welcome the companionship of His Bride and tell the Church how to find Him?

If you don’t know your way, most beautiful of women, then follow the tracks of the herds and graze your little goats by the tents of the shepherds. I picture you, my dearest, as a mare among Pharaoh’s chariots! Lovely are your cheeks, adorned with ear hoops; your neck, with beads. Let’s make hoops of gold beaded with silver for you! (Song 1:8-11 CEB)

Do we see the companionship of Jesus in our daily lives as perfume on our chest?

My king, while you were on your couch, my aroma was a magic charm. My darling, you are perfume between my breasts; you are flower blossoms from the gardens of En-Gedi. (Song 1:12-14 CEV)

Do we see through the eyes of Jesus as He looks upon His Bride, the Church, as beautiful?

Behold, you are beautiful, my love; behold, you are beautiful; your eyes are doves. (Song 1:15 ESV)

Do we enjoy meeting with Jesus even in the humblest of Church buildings, the house of the Lord, as a beautiful place?

How handsome you are, my love. How delightful! Our bed is lush with foliage; the beams of our house are cedars, and our rafters are cypresses. (Song 1:16-17 HCSB)

Do we understand the love that Jesus has for His Church, or do we insult Him by constantly criticizing her?

Let us rejoice, be glad, and give him glory, because the marriage of the lamb has come and his bride has made herself ready. (Rev 19:7 ISV)

Is the greatest song ever written one that pictures the marriage of the Lamb to His Bride the Church? You decide!

Our Duty (Ecclesiastes 12)

Who should we remember all the days of our lives as our whole duty? Let’s look at Ecclesiastes 12.

Should we remember God before our eyes grow dim, before the silver cord possibly holding body and soul together or perhaps our spinal cord is broken, and our bodies return to dust?

Remember your creator in your prime, before the days of trouble arrive, and those years, about which you’ll say, “I take no pleasure in these”—before the sun and the light grow dark, the moon and the stars too, before the clouds return after the rain; on the day when the housekeepers tremble and the strong men stoop; when the women who grind stop working because they’re so few, and those who look through the windows grow dim; when the doors to the street are shut, when the sound of the mill fades, the sound of the bird rises, and all the singers come down low; when people are afraid of things above and of terrors along the way; when the almond tree blanches, the locust droops, and the caper-berry comes to nothing; when the human goes to the eternal abode, with mourners all around in the street; before the silver cord snaps and the gold bowl shatters; the jar is broken at the spring and the wheel is crushed at the pit; before dust returns to the earth as it was before and the life-breath returns to God who gave it. (Ecc 12:1-7 CEB)

What are words of wisdom like and how important are they compared to any other teachings?

I was a wise teacher with much understanding, and I collected a number of proverbs that I had carefully studied. Then I tried to explain these things in the best and most accurate way. Words of wisdom are like the stick a farmer uses to make animals move. These sayings come from a shepherd, and they are like nails that fasten things together. My child, I warn you to stay away from any teachings except these. There is no end to books, and too much study will wear you out. (Ecc 12:9-12 CEV)

What is the whole duty of mankind? Who will judge everyone?

The end of the matter; all has been heard. Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the whole duty of man. For God will bring every deed into judgment, with every secret thing, whether good or evil. (Ecc 12:13-14 ESV)

In one sense has judgement already begun and who is facing that judgment?

For the time has come for judgment to begin with God’s household, and if it begins with us, what will the outcome be for those who disobey the gospel of God? (1 Peter 4:17 HCSB)

Who should we remember all the days of our lives as our whole duty? You decide!

Consequences (Ecclesiastes 11)

Are there consequences for life’s decisions? Let’s look at Ecclesiastes 11.

How important is generosity and does God reward generosity in mysterious ways?

Cast your bread on the surface of the waters, for you will find it after many days. Divide your portion to seven, or even to eight, for you do not know what misfortune may occur on the earth. If the clouds are full, they pour out rain on the earth; and whether a tree falls toward the south or toward the north, wherever the tree falls, there it lies. One who watches the wind will not sow and one who looks at the clouds will not harvest. Just as you do not know the path of the wind, and how bones are formed in the womb of the pregnant woman, so you do not know the activity of God who makes everything. (Ecc 11:1-5 NASB)

Should we be diligent and diversify our efforts or just gamble on only one effort?

Sow your seed in the morning, and at evening let your hands not be idle, for you do not know which will succeed, whether this or that, or whether both will do equally well. (Ecc 11:6 NIV)

Should we learn from both our good and our bad days?

Truly the light is sweet, And it is pleasant for the eyes to behold the sun; But if a man lives many years And rejoices in them all, Yet let him remember the days of darkness, For they will be many. All that is coming is vanity. (Ecc 11:7-8 NKJV)

Should we just enjoy our youth without preparing diligently for the rest of our lives?

Young people, it’s wonderful to be young! Enjoy every minute of it. Do everything you want to do; take it all in. But remember that you must give an account to God for everything you do. So refuse to worry, and keep your body healthy. But remember that youth, with a whole life before you, is meaningless. (Ecc 11:9-10 NLT)

Who can we rely upon as an unchanging power in our lives?

Come now, you who say, “Today or tomorrow let’s go into this city and spend a year there, trade, and make a profit.” Yet you don’t know what your life will be like tomorrow. For what is your life? For you are a vapor that appears for a little time and then vanishes away. For you ought to say, “If the Lord wills, we will both live, and do this or that.” (James 4:13-15 WEB)

Are there consequences for life’s decisions? You decide!

Folly (Ecclesiastes 10)

In a messed up world, how much folly is there in human life? Let’s look at Ecclesiastes 10.

What does a little foolishness do to a life normally filled with wise choices?

A few dead flies in perfume make all of it stink, and a little foolishness outweighs a lot of wisdom. Sensible thoughts lead you to do right; foolish thoughts lead you to do wrong. Fools show their stupidity by the way they live; it's easy to see they have no sense. Don't give up your job when your boss gets angry. If you stay calm, you'll be forgiven. (Ecc 10:1-4 CEV)

Have those in charge of our world often put the foolish in charge and demoted the wise?

Here’s another tragedy that I’ve observed on earth, a kind of error that comes from an overseer: Foolishness is given great honor, while the [talented] prosperous sit in lowly places. And I have observed servants riding on horses, while princes walk on the ground like servants. (Ecc 10:5-7 ISV)

Does the one who does evil actually set a trap for himself?

He who digs a pit will fall into it, and a serpent will bite him who breaks through a wall. He who quarries stones is hurt by them, and he who splits logs is endangered by them. If the iron is blunt, and one does not sharpen the edge, he must use more strength, but wisdom helps one to succeed. If the serpent bites before it is charmed, there is no advantage to the charmer. (Ecc 10:8-11 ESV)

What is the difference between how a fool talks and a wise person?

The words from the mouth of a wise man are gracious, but the lips of a fool consume him. The beginning of the words of his mouth is folly, but the end of his speaking is evil madness. Yet the fool multiplies words. No one knows what will happen, and who can tell anyone what will happen after him? The struggles of fools weary them, for they don’t know how to go to the city. (Ecc 10:12-15 HCSB)

How much do lazy leadership, bribery, and gossip impact a country?

Woe to thee, O land, when thy king is a child, and thy princes eat in the morning! Blessed art thou, O land, when thy king is the son of nobles, and thy princes eat in due season, for strength, and not for drunkenness! By much slothfulness the building decayeth; and through idleness of the hands the house droppeth through. A feast is made for laughter, and wine maketh merry: but money answereth all things. Curse not the king, no not in thy thought; and curse not the rich in thy bedchamber: for a bird of the air shall carry the voice, and that which hath wings shall tell the matter. (Ecc 10:16-20 KJV)

What if we lack wisdom, who do we ask, and with what attitude should we ask?

But if any of you lacks wisdom, let him ask of God, who gives to all generously and without reproach, and it will be given to him. But he must ask in faith, doubting nothing, for the one who doubts is like the surf of the sea, driven and tossed by the wind. (James 1:5-6 LSB)

In a messed up world, how much folly is there in human life? You decide!

Death (Ecclesiastes 9)

What is the one thing that both those trying to live a good life and those bent on evil will experience? Let’s look at Ecclesiastes 9.

In a world of uncertainty, does the same thing await us all?

For I have taken all this to my heart, even to examine it all, that righteous people, wise people, and their deeds are in the hand of God. People do not know whether it will be love or hatred; anything awaits them. It is the same for all. There is one fate for the righteous and for the wicked; for the good, for the clean and the unclean; for the person who offers a sacrifice and for the one who does not sacrifice. As the good person is, so is the sinner; the one who swears an oath is just as the one who is afraid to swear an oath. (Ecc 9:1-2 NASB)

What destiny overtakes us all? What hope is there of the dead?

This is the evil in everything that happens under the sun: The same destiny overtakes all. The hearts of people, moreover, are full of evil and there is madness in their hearts while they live, and afterward they join the dead. Anyone who is among the living has hope—even a live dog is better off than a dead lion! For the living know that they will die, but the dead know nothing; they have no further reward, and even their name is forgotten. Their love, their hate and their jealousy have long since vanished; never again will they have a part in anything that happens under the sun. (Ecc 9:3-6 NIV)

What are some important but seemingly small things we should do in life?

Go, eat your bread with joy, And drink your wine with a merry heart; For God has already accepted your works. Let your garments always be white, And let your head lack no oil. Live joyfully with the wife whom you love all the days of your vain life which He has given you under the sun, all your days of vanity; for that is your portion in life, and in the labor which you perform under the sun. Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might; for there is no work or device or knowledge or wisdom in the grave where you are going. (Ecc 9:7-10 NKJV)

Should we account for the unpredictability of time and chance in life?

I have observed something else under the sun. The fastest runner doesn’t always win the race, and the strongest warrior doesn’t always win the battle. The wise sometimes go hungry, and the skillful are not necessarily wealthy. And those who are educated don’t always lead successful lives. It is all decided by chance, by being in the right place at the right time. People can never predict when hard times might come. Like fish in a net or birds in a trap, people are caught by sudden tragedy. (Ecc 9:11-12 NLT)

Though a poor man is often ignored, can his wisdom defeat a superior enemy?

I have also seen wisdom under the sun in this way, and it seemed great to me. There was a little city, and few men within it; and a great king came against it, besieged it, and built great bulwarks against it. Now a poor wise man was found in it, and he by his wisdom delivered the city; yet no man remembered that same poor man. Then I said, “Wisdom is better than strength.” Nevertheless the poor man’s wisdom is despised, and his words are not heard. The words of the wise heard in quiet are better than the cry of him who rules among fools. Wisdom is better than weapons of war; but one sinner destroys much good. (Ecc 9:13-18 WEB)

Is there hope for the dead in the death and resurrection of Jesus Christ?

Since death came through a human being, the resurrection of the dead came through one too. In the same way that everyone dies in Adam, so also everyone will be given life in Christ. (1 Cor 15:21-22 CEB)

What is the one thing that both those trying to live a good life and those bent on evil will experience? You decide!

Governments (Ecclesiastes 8)

Do we obey earthly authorities? Let’s look at Ecclesiastes 8.

Does wisdom brighten up the faces of those who possess it and those who listen?

Who is wise? And who knows the meaning of anything? A person’s wisdom brightens the expression; it changes the hardness of someone’s face. (Ecc 8:1 CEB)

Though human governments are often abusive and unjust, is it wise to obey them?

If you promised God that you would be loyal to the king, I advise you to keep that promise. Don't quickly oppose the king or argue when he has already made up his mind. The king's word is law. No one can ask him, “Why are you doing this?” If you obey the king, you will stay out of trouble. So be wise and learn what to do and when to do it. (Ecc 8:2-5 CEV)

In a troubled world, where those in charge have power to hurt us, how much do we need wisdom?

For there is a time and a way for everything, although man's trouble lies heavy on him. For he does not know what is to be, for who can tell him how it will be? No man has power to retain the spirit, or power over the day of death. There is no discharge from war, nor will wickedness deliver those who are given to it. All this I observed while applying my heart to all that is done under the sun, when man had power over man to his hurt. (Ecc 8:6-9 ESV)

Who is the ultimate judge of those who prefer evil and those who are trying to live honest and upright lives?

In such circumstances, I saw the wicked buried. They came and went from the holy place, and they were praised in the city where they did so. This too is futile. Because the sentence against a criminal act is not carried out quickly, the heart of people is filled with the desire to commit crime. Although a sinner commits crime a hundred times and prolongs his life, yet I also know that it will go well with God-fearing people, for they are reverent before Him. However, it will not go well with the wicked, and they will not lengthen their days like a shadow, for they are not reverent before God. (Ecc 8:10-13 HCSB)

Under unjust governments where the wicked often prosper and the righteous suffer, what are the things in life that we can enjoy?

Here is a pointless thing that happens on earth: A righteous man receives what happens to the wicked, and a wicked man receives what happens to the righteous. I concluded that this, too, is pointless. So then I recommended enjoyment of life, because it is better on earth for a man to eat, drink, and be happy, since this will stay with him throughout his struggle all the days of his life, which God grants him on earth. (Ecc 8:14-15 ISV)

Can all the wisdom of this world help us understand the mysteries and power of God?

When I applied mine heart to know wisdom, and to see the business that is done upon the earth: (for also there is that neither day nor night seeth sleep with his eyes:) Then I beheld all the work of God, that a man cannot find out the work that is done under the sun: because though a man labour to seek it out, yet he shall not find it; yea farther; though a wise man think to know it, yet shall he not be able to find it. (Ecc 8:16-17 KJV)

Within the limits of Christ’s commands, are we to be submissive to government laws?

Every person is to be in subjection to the governing authorities. For there is no authority except from God, and those which exist have been appointed by God. (Rom 13:1 LSB)

Do we obey earthly authorities? You decide!

Virtue (Ecclesiastes 7)

Can we find anyone who is truly virtuous? Let’s look at Ecclesiastes 7.

Why is it better to go to a funeral than a feast? Why is it better to choose sorrow over laughter?

A good reputation at the time of death is better than loving care at the time of birth. It's better to go to a funeral than to attend a feast; funerals remind us that we all must die. Choose sorrow over laughter because a sad face may hide a happy heart. A sensible person mourns, but fools always laugh. (Ecc 7:1-4 CEV)

Why is rebuke from a wise person better than listening to a fool’s song? What does that say about pop songs?

It is better for a man to hear the rebuke of the wise than to hear the song of fools. For as the crackling of thorns under a pot, so is the laughter of the fools; this also is vanity. Surely oppression drives the wise into madness, and a bribe corrupts the heart. (Ecc 7:5-7 ESV)

Why is it foolish to ask why the days of old were better than today?

The end of a matter is better than its beginning; a patient spirit is better than a proud spirit. Don’t let your spirit rush to be angry, for anger abides in the heart of fools. Don’t say, “Why were the former days better than these?” since it is not wise of you to ask this. (Ecc 7:8-10 HCSB)

Are money and possessions just tools to be used for good?

Wise use of possessions is good; it brings benefit to the living. Indeed, wisdom gives protection, just like money does, but it’s better to know that wisdom gives life, to those who have mastered it. (Ecc 7:11-12 ISV)

Is it the work of God to make things straight or crooked, so that man should find nothing predictable after him but to trust in God?

Consider the work of God: for who can make that straight, which he hath made crooked? In the day of prosperity be joyful, but in the day of adversity consider: God also hath set the one over against the other, to the end that man should find nothing after him. (Ecc 7:13-14 KJV)

Is life unpredictable, but is trust in God our surest hope?

I have seen everything during my days of vanity; there is a righteous man who perishes in his righteousness, and there is a wicked man who prolongs his life in his evildoing. Do not be excessively righteous, and do not be overly wise. Why should you make yourself desolate? Do not be excessively wicked, and do not be a simpleminded fool. Why should you die before your time? It is good that you seize one thing and also not let go of the other; for the one who fears God comes forth with both of them. (Ecc 7:15-18 LSB)

Does wisdom make us strong? Can any of us claim we have never sinned? Should we be offended when we hear someone complain about us?

Wisdom strengthens a wise person more than ten rulers who are in a city. Indeed, there is not a righteous person on earth who always does good and does not ever sin. Also, do not take seriously all the words which are spoken, so that you do not hear your servant cursing you, for you know that even you have cursed others many times as well. (Ecc 7:19-22 NASB)

Is wisdom important? Is sin stupid? Is folly madness?

All this I tested by wisdom and I said, “I am determined to be wise”—but this was beyond me. Whatever exists is far off and most profound—who can discover it? So I turned my mind to understand, to investigate and to search out wisdom and the scheme of things and to understand the stupidity of wickedness and the madness of folly. (Ecc 7:23-25 NIV)

What kind of woman should a man stay far away from?

And I find more bitter than death The woman whose heart is snares and nets, Whose hands are fetters. He who pleases God shall escape from her, But the sinner shall be trapped by her. (Ecc 7:26 NKJV)

What is the teacher’s conclusion? Did he find many virtuous people? Were any of his thousand wives and concubines as good as one faithful wife?

“This is my conclusion,” says the Teacher. “I discovered this after looking at the matter from every possible angle. Though I have searched repeatedly, I have not found what I was looking for. Only one out of a thousand men is virtuous, but not one woman! But I did find this: God created people to be virtuous, but they have each turned to follow their own downward path.” (Ecc 7:27-29 NLT)

Did Jesus also say that few are finding the way to life?

Enter in by the narrow gate; for the gate is wide and the way is broad that leads to destruction, and there are many who enter in by it. How narrow is the gate and the way is restricted that leads to life! There are few who find it. (Mat 7:13-14 WEB)

Can we find anyone who is truly virtuous? You decide!

Meaningless (Ecclesiastes 6)

Are some things that we think are important in life actually meaningless? Let’s look at Ecclesiastes 6.

Do we enjoy our wealth that we have accumulated forever, or do strangers enjoy it by foreign invasion, taxation, theft or death?

I have seen another evil under the sun, and it weighs heavily on mankind: God gives some people wealth, possessions and honor, so that they lack nothing their hearts desire, but God does not grant them the ability to enjoy them, and strangers enjoy them instead. This is meaningless, a grievous evil. (Ecc 6:1-2 NIV)

Does living a thousand years guarantee happiness, or does life come in vanity and depart in darkness?

If a man begets a hundred children and lives many years, so that the days of his years are many, but his soul is not satisfied with goodness, or indeed he has no burial, I say that a stillborn child is better than he— for it comes in vanity and departs in darkness, and its name is covered with darkness. Though it has not seen the sun or known anything, this has more rest than that man, even if he lives a thousand years twice—but has not seen goodness. Do not all go to one place? (Ecc 6:3-6 NKJV)

Is covetousness chasing wind, whether we are rich or poor?

All people spend their lives scratching for food, but they never seem to have enough. So are wise people really better off than fools? Do poor people gain anything by being wise and knowing how to act in front of others? Enjoy what you have rather than desiring what you don’t have. Just dreaming about nice things is meaningless—like chasing the wind. (Ecc 6:7-9 NLT)

Are there many words that people use to puff themselves up? Does it really profit anyone? Does it change what happens after we die?

Whatever has been, its name was given long ago; and it is known what man is; neither can he contend with him who is mightier than he. For there are many words that create vanity. What does that profit man? For who knows what is good for man in life, all the days of his vain life which he spends like a shadow? For who can tell a man what will be after him under the sun? (Ecc 6:10-12 WEB)

What would Jesus say about those who puff themselves up or think that worldly status is important?

Jesus answered, “If I glorify myself, my glory is meaningless. My Father, who you say is your God, is the one who glorifies me. (John 8:54 CEB)

Are some things that we think are important in life actually meaningless? You decide!

Materialism (Ecclesiastes 5)

How should we avoid the deceptions of the world around us? Let’s look at Ecclesiastes 5.

Should we talk too much or think first when we go into the house of the Lord?

Be careful what you do when you enter the house of God. Fools go there to offer sacrifices, because all they do is sin. But it's best just to listen when you go to worship. Don't talk before you think or make promises to God without thinking them through. God is in heaven, and you are on earth, so don't talk too much. If you keep thinking about something, you will dream about it. If you talk too much, you will say the wrong thing. (Ecc 5:1-3 CEV)

When we pray to God should we do what we promised Him?

When you vow a vow to God, do not delay paying it, for he has no pleasure in fools. Pay what you vow. It is better that you should not vow than that you should vow and not pay. Let not your mouth lead you into sin, and do not say before the messenger that it was a mistake. Why should God be angry at your voice and destroy the work of your hands? For when dreams increase and words grow many, there is vanity; but God is the one you must fear. (Ecc 5:4-7 ESV)

Should we be shocked that oppression of the poor and the miscarriage of justice still exist in our world?

If you see oppression of the poor and perversion of justice and righteousness in the province, don’t be astonished at the situation, because one official protects another official, and higher officials protect them. The profit from the land is taken by all; the king is served by the field. (Ecc 5:8-9 HCSB)

Do money and possessions satisfy or do people always want more, more, more?

Whoever loves money will never have enough money. Whoever loves luxury will not be content with abundance. This also is pointless. When possessions increase, so does the number of consumers; therefore what good are they to their owners, except to look at them? Sweet is the sleep of a working man, whether he eats a little or a lot, but the excess wealth of the rich will not allow him to rest. (Ecc 5:10-12 ISV)

Is the selfish accumulation and hoarding of wealth an evil that only hurts those involved?

There is a sore evil which I have seen under the sun, namely, riches kept for the owners thereof to their hurt. But those riches perish by evil travail: and he begetteth a son, and there is nothing in his hand. As he came forth of his mother's womb, naked shall he return to go as he came, and shall take nothing of his labour, which he may carry away in his hand. And this also is a sore evil, that in all points as he came, so shall he go: and what profit hath he that hath laboured for the wind? All his days also he eateth in darkness, and he hath much sorrow and wrath with his sickness. (Ecc 5:13-17 KJV)

In a world with so much evil is there anything that is good and beautiful?

Here is what I have seen to be good, which is beautiful: to eat, to drink, and to see good in all one’s labor in which he labors under the sun during the few days of his life which God has given him; for this is his portion. Furthermore, as for every man to whom God has given riches and wealth, He has also empowered him to eat from them and to take up his portion and be glad in his labor; this is the gift of God. For he will not remember much the days of his life because God allows him to occupy himself with the gladness of his heart. (Ecc 5:18-20 LSB)

In a world with so much evil what can we do to maintain a positive mental attitude?

Finally, brothers and sisters, whatever is true, whatever is honorable, whatever is right, whatever is pure, whatever is lovely, whatever is commendable, if there is any excellence and if anything worthy of praise, think about these things. (Phil 4:8 NASB)

How should we avoid the deceptions of the world around us? You decide!

Selfishness (Ecclesiastes 4)

What human trait is characteristic of all forms of human government? Let’s look at Ecclesiastes 4.

Is selfish oppression everywhere, even in so-called free countries?

Again I looked and saw all the oppression that was taking place under the sun: I saw the tears of the oppressed—and they have no comforter; power was on the side of their oppressors—and they have no comforter. And I declared that the dead, who had already died, are happier than the living, who are still alive. But better than both is the one who has never been born, who has not seen the evil that is done under the sun. (Ecc 4:1-3 NIV)

What is better than working hard just to be envied by others?

Again, I saw that for all toil and every skillful work a man is envied by his neighbor. This also is vanity and grasping for the wind. The fool folds his hands And consumes his own flesh. Better a handful with quietness Than both hands full, together with toil and grasping for the wind. (Ecc 4:4-6 NKJV)

What is better than accumulating great wealth only to be all alone?

I observed yet another example of something meaningless under the sun. This is the case of a man who is all alone, without a child or a brother, yet who works hard to gain as much wealth as he can. But then he asks himself, “Who am I working for? Why am I giving up so much pleasure now?” It is all so meaningless and depressing. Two people are better off than one, for they can help each other succeed. If one person falls, the other can reach out and help. But someone who falls alone is in real trouble. Likewise, two people lying close together can keep each other warm. But how can one be warm alone? A person standing alone can be attacked and defeated, but two can stand back-to-back and conquer. Three are even better, for a triple-braided cord is not easily broken. (Ecc 4:7-12 NLT)

What is better than having great political power, especially for anyone who is wise in his own eyes?

Better is a poor and wise youth than an old and foolish king who doesn’t know how to receive admonition any more. For out of prison he came out to be king; yes, even in his kingdom he was born poor. I saw all the living who walk under the sun, that they were with the youth, the other, who succeeded him. There was no end of all the people, even of all them over whom he was—yet those who come after shall not rejoice in him. Surely this also is vanity and a chasing after wind. (Ecc 4:13-16 WEB)

What will become of the governments of this world when Jesus returns?

Then the seventh angel blew his trumpet, and there were loud voices in heaven saying, “The kingdom of the world has become the kingdom of our Lord and his Christ, and he will rule forever and always.” (Rev 11:15 CEB)

What human trait is characteristic of all forms of human government? You decide!

A Right Time (Ecclesiastes 3)

Whether good or bad things happen, do we trust God to ultimately bless those who love Him? Let’s look at Ecclesiastes 3.

Do we wait patiently until the right time, season or occasion for things?

There is an occasion for everything, and a time for every activity under heaven: a time to give birth and a time to die; a time to plant and a time to uproot; a time to kill and a time to heal; a time to tear down and a time to build; a time to weep and a time to laugh; a time to mourn and a time to dance; a time to throw stones and a time to gather stones; a time to embrace and a time to avoid embracing; a time to search and a time to count as lost; a time to keep and a time to throw away; a time to tear and a time to sew; a time to be silent and a time to speak; a time to love and a time to hate; a time for war and a time for peace. (Ecc 3:1-8 HCSB)

Does a worker gain worthwhile pleasure from his work when he does good? How does that relate to our eternity?

What benefit does the worker gain from what he undertakes? I have observed the burdens placed by God on human beings in order to perfect them. He made everything appropriate in its time. He also placed eternity within them—yet, no person can fully comprehend what God is doing from beginning to end. I have concluded that the only worthwhile thing for them is to take pleasure in doing good in life; moreover, every person should eat, drink, and enjoy the benefits of everything that he undertakes, since it is a gift from God. I have concluded that everything that God undertakes will last for eternity—nothing can be added to it nor taken away from it—and that God acts this way so that people will fear him. That which was, now is; and that which will be, already is; and God examines what has already taken place. (Ecc 3:9-15 ISV)

Is wickedness too often found where we hope to find justice and righteousness? Will God eventually judge things?

And moreover I saw under the sun the place of judgment, that wickedness was there; and the place of righteousness, that iniquity was there. I said in mine heart, God shall judge the righteous and the wicked: for there is a time there for every purpose and for every work. (Ecc 3:16-17 KJV)

Is God testing us all right now? Will we all die, and what happens after that, is it in God’s hands?

I said in my heart concerning the sons of men, “God is testing them in order for them to see that they are but beasts.” For the fate of the sons of men and the fate of beasts is the same fate for each of them. As one dies so dies the other, and they all have the same breath. So there is no advantage for man over beast, for all is vanity. All go to the same place. All came from the dust, and all return to the dust. Who knows that the breath of man ascends upward and the breath of the beast descends downward to the earth? I have seen that nothing is better than that man should be glad in his works, for that is his portion. For who will bring him to see what will occur after him? (Ecc 3:18-22 LSB)

No matter what happens in this life, do we trust that God has loving control over our eternity?

And we know that God causes all things to work together for good to those who love God, to those who are called according to His purpose. (Rom 8:28 NASB)

Whether good or bad things happen, do we trust God to ultimately bless those who love Him? You decide!

Chasing Wind (Ecclesiastes 2)

Is much of life just chasing after wind? Let’s look at Ecclesiastes 2.

Do temporary pleasures make for a fulfilling life or are they just empty pastimes?

I said in my heart, “Come now, I will test you with gladness, so that you shall see good things.” And behold, it too was vanity. I said of laughter, “It is madness,” and of gladness, “What does it do?” I explored with my heart how to stimulate my body with wine—while my heart was guiding me wisely—and how to seize simpleminded folly, until I could see where is this good for the sons of men in what they do under heaven the few days of their lives. (Ecc 2:1-3 LSB)

Do bigger projects, employees, wealth and sexual pursuits make for a fulfilling life or do they too just leave us empty?

I enlarged my works: I built houses for myself, I planted vineyards for myself; I made gardens and parks for myself, and I planted in them all kinds of fruit trees; I made ponds of water for myself from which to irrigate a forest of growing trees. I bought male and female slaves, and I had slaves born at home. I also possessed flocks and herds larger than all who preceded me in Jerusalem. I also amassed for myself silver and gold, and the treasure of kings and provinces. I provided for myself male and female singers, and the pleasures of the sons of mankind: many concubines. (Ecc 2:4-8 NASB)

Would becoming the richest man in the nation and chasing our heart’s desires just end up as meaningless too?

I became greater by far than anyone in Jerusalem before me. In all this my wisdom stayed with me. I denied myself nothing my eyes desired; I refused my heart no pleasure. My heart took delight in all my labor, and this was the reward for all my toil. Yet when I surveyed all that my hands had done and what I had toiled to achieve, everything was meaningless, a chasing after the wind; nothing was gained under the sun. (Ecc 2:9-11 NIV)

How are both the fool who lives in darkness and the wise person who lives in the light similar?

Then I turned myself to consider wisdom and madness and folly; For what can the man do who succeeds the king?—Only what he has already done. Then I saw that wisdom excels folly As light excels darkness. The wise man’s eyes are in his head, But the fool walks in darkness. Yet I myself perceived That the same event happens to them all. (Ecc 2:12-14 NKJV)

What will happen to both the foolish and the wise? Will both be forgotten in time?

Both will die. So I said to myself, “Since I will end up the same as the fool, what’s the value of all my wisdom? This is all so meaningless!” For the wise and the foolish both die. The wise will not be remembered any longer than the fool. In the days to come, both will be forgotten. (Ecc 2:15-16 NLT)

Why did Solomon hate this life and its temporary nature?

So I hated life, because the work that is worked under the sun was grievous to me; for all is vanity and a chasing after wind. I hated all my labor in which I labored under the sun, because I must leave it to the man who comes after me. Who knows whether he will be a wise man or a fool? Yet he will have rule over all of my labor in which I have labored, and in which I have shown myself wise under the sun. This also is vanity. (Ecc 2:17-19 WEB)

What does hard work accomplish other than leaving it all to heirs who didn’t work for it?

I then gave myself up to despair, as I thought about all my laborious hard work under the sun, because sometimes those who have worked hard with wisdom, knowledge, and skill must leave the results of their hard work as a possession to those who haven’t worked hard for it. This too is pointless—it’s a terrible wrong. I mean, What do people get for all their hard work and struggles under the sun? All their days are pain, and their work is aggravation; even at night, their hearts don’t find rest. This too is pointless. (Ecc 2:20-23 CEB)

What are some of the best things we can actually enjoy in this short life?

The best thing we can do is to enjoy eating, drinking, and working. I believe these are God's gifts to us, and no one enjoys eating and living more than I do. If we please God, he will make us wise, understanding, and happy. But if we sin, God will make us struggle for a living, then he will give all we own to someone who pleases him. This makes no more sense than chasing the wind. (Ecc 2:24-26 CEV)

Do we chase after the wind, or follow someone who actually controls the wind and offers eternal life?

And they were filled with great fear and said to one another, “Who then is this, that even the wind and the sea obey him?” (Mark 4:41 ESV)

Is much of life just chasing after wind? You decide!

Vanity (Ecclesiastes 1)

How do we become wise without becoming vain and arrogant about it? Let’s begin in Ecclesiastes 1.

Do we ever ask whether our lives have been pointless, filled with meaningless pursuits?

The words of the Teacher of the Assembly, David’s son, king in Jerusalem: Perfectly pointless, says the Teacher, perfectly pointless. Everything is pointless. What do people gain from all the hard work that they work so hard at under the sun? A generation goes, and a generation comes, but the earth remains as it always has. (Ecc 1:1-4 CEB)

Does the cycle of daily life continue completely without our input?

The sun comes up, the sun goes down; it hurries right back to where it started from. The wind blows south, the wind blows north; round and round it blows over and over again. All rivers empty into the sea, but it never spills over; one by one the rivers return to their source. (Ecc 1:5-7 CEV)

Do merchants rely upon our incessant covetousness instead of contentment? Has society remained basically the same in that regard since ancient times?

All things are full of weariness; a man cannot utter it; the eye is not satisfied with seeing, nor the ear filled with hearing. What has been is what will be, and what has been done is what will be done, and there is nothing new under the sun. Is there a thing of which it is said, “See, this is new”? It has been already in the ages before us. There is no remembrance of former things, nor will there be any remembrance of later things yet to be among those who come after. (Ecc 1:8-11 ESV)

Did the teacher summarize all human efforts as basically futile, pursuit of the wind?

I, the Teacher, have been king over Israel in Jerusalem. I applied my mind to seek and explore through wisdom all that is done under heaven. God has given people this miserable task to keep them occupied. I have seen all the things that are done under the sun and have found everything to be futile, a pursuit of the wind. What is crooked cannot be straightened; what is lacking cannot be counted. (Ecc 1:12-15 HCSB)

Is pride a danger in having wisdom? What are two byproducts of wisdom and knowledge that we would rather not have?

I told myself, “I have become greater and wiser than anyone who ruled before me in Jerusalem—yes, I have acquired a great deal of wisdom and knowledge.” So I dedicated myself to learn about wisdom and knowledge, and about insanity and foolishness. And I discovered that this is also like chasing after the wind. For with much wisdom there is much sorrow; the more someone adds to knowledge, the more someone adds to grief. (Ecc 1:16-18 ISV)

Is there a temptation in wisdom to become conceited or arrogant in our own opinions?

For I would not, brethren, that ye should be ignorant of this mystery, lest ye should be wise in your own conceits; that blindness in part is happened to Israel, until the fulness of the Gentiles be come in. (Rom 11:25 KJV)

How do we become wise without becoming vain and arrogant about it? You decide!

Lemuel's Mother (Pr 31)

What lessons can we learn from two women, the wisdom of Lemuel’s mother and her description of a virtuous wife? Let’s look at Proverbs 31.

Was Lemuel’s mother a very wise woman?

The words of King Lemuel. An oracle that his mother taught him: (Pr 31:1 ESV)

Had Lemuel’s mother seen how Solomon’s sex addiction and multiple wives had destroyed him? Is there a difference between having one faithful wife, as God gave Adam, and a man who chases hundreds of women?

What should I say, my son? What, son of my womb? What, son of my vows? Don’t spend your energy on women or your efforts on those who destroy kings. (Pr 31:2-3 HCSB)

Is it good for a king to avoid alcohol? Should he be available at all times for decisions requiring a clear head? What about communion wine for a Christian king? Is there a balance?

It is not for kings, Lemuel—Not for kings to drink wine or for rulers to desire liquor. Otherwise, they may drink and forget what has been ordained, perverting justice for all the oppressed. (Pr 31:4-5 ISV)

Who is perfectly free to have a strong drink or glass of wine?

Give strong drink unto him that is ready to perish, and wine unto those that be of heavy hearts. Let him drink, and forget his poverty, and remember his misery no more. (Pr 31:6-7 KJV)

Should we fight for the handicapped, and desire justice for the suffering and the poor?

Open your mouth for the mute, For the justice of all those passing away. Open your mouth, judge righteously, And render justice to the afflicted and needy. (Pr 31:8-9 LSB)

Designed as an acrostic of the 22 letters of the Hebrew alphabet, what kind of high standards did Lemuel’s mother advise him to look for in a wife? Would she be worthy, capable, intelligent, noble, the perfect wife?

An excellent wife, who can find her? For her worth is far above jewels. (Pr 31:10 NASB)

How valuable is it to have a wife that a man can completely trust that she will not overspend but wisely handle family finances?

Her husband has full confidence in her and lacks nothing of value. (Pr 31:11 NIV)

How important is it to have a wife who builds her husband up rather than constantly tear him down with criticism?

She does him good and not evil All the days of her life. (Pr 31:12 NKJV)

Does the virtuous wife love to work with her hands in homemaking skills?

She finds wool and flax and busily spins it. (Pr 31:13 NLT)

Does the good wife develop necessary skills for buying things from far away?

She is like the merchant ships. She brings her bread from afar. (Pr 31:14 WEB)

Does the virtuous wife get up early to cook for the family and even for hired help?

She gets up while it is still night, providing food for her household, even some for her female servants. (Pr 31:15 CEB)

Is this a woman under a domineering husband or free to evaluate a land purchase and grow a fruit crop?

She knows how to buy land and how to plant a vineyard, (Pr 31:16 CEV)

Is she a lazy woman too delicate for physical work or energetic and strong?

She dresses herself with strength and makes her arms strong. (Pr 31:17 ESV)

Does the capable wife earn an income through her business efforts? Does she also work late?

She sees that her profits are good, and her lamp never goes out at night. (Pr 31:18 HCSB)

Is this intelligent and noble wife also capable in the basics of garment making?

She works with her own hands on her clothes— her hands work the sewing spindle. (Pr 31:19 ISV)

Is this perfect wife also someone who cares for the poor and needy?

She stretcheth out her hand to the poor; yea, she reacheth forth her hands to the needy. (Pr 31:20 KJV)

Is the virtuous woman prepared for winter with appropriate clothing for her household?

She is not afraid of the snow for her household, For all her household are clothed with scarlet. (Pr 31:21 LSB)

Is she also dressed appropriately, including occasional expensive clothing?

She makes coverings for herself; Her clothing is fine linen and purple. (Pr 31:22 NASB)

Because of the support given by such a virtuous woman, is her husband able to take a leading role in community affairs?

Her husband is respected at the city gate, where he takes his seat among the elders of the land. (Pr 31:23 NIV)

Is this amazing woman also competent to create her own clothing line and sell it?

She makes linen garments and sells them, And supplies sashes for the merchants. (Pr 31:24 NKJV)

With the support given by a loving husband, is this woman free to become strong and prepared for what may come?

She is clothed with strength and dignity, and she laughs without fear of the future. (Pr 31:25 NLT)

Is this amazing woman valued for her wisdom and kindness?

She opens her mouth with wisdom. Kind instruction is on her tongue. (Pr 31:26 WEB)

Is this excellent wife diligent in her family and business responsibilities?

She is vigilant over the activities of her household; she doesn’t eat the food of laziness. (Pr 31:27 CEB)

Is this virtuous woman praised by both her children and her husband?

Her children praise her, and with great pride her husband says, “There are many good women, but you are the best!” (Pr 31:28-29 CEV)

Of all her qualities, which is the most important that any woman should have?

Charm is deceitful, and beauty is vain, but a woman who fears the Lord is to be praised. (Pr 31:30 ESV)

Will the excellent wife find praise in her labor that reaches even community leaders?

Give her the reward of her labor, and let her works praise her at the city gates. (Pr 31:31 HCSB)

Is there a spiritual lesson here as well, in picturing the Church as the Bride of Christ?

Let us rejoice, be glad, and give him glory, because the marriage of the lamb has come and his bride has made herself ready. (Rev 19:7 ISV)

What lessons can we learn from two women, the wisdom of Lemuel’s mother and her description of a virtuous wife? You decide!

Agur's Words (Proverbs 30)

Are we faithful and wise servants of God? Let’s begin in Proverbs 30.

Is Agur wiser than most of us, humbly admitting his insufficiency?

The words of Agur, Jakeh’s son, from Massa. The man declares: I’m tired, God; I’m tired, God, and I’m exhausted. Actually, I’m too stupid to be human, a man without understanding. I haven’t learned wisdom, nor do I have knowledge of the holy one. (Pr 30:1-3 CEB)

Are any of us sufficient to understand the wonders of the natural world and the power of God?

Has anyone gone up to heaven and come back down? Has anyone grabbed hold of the wind? Has anyone wrapped up the sea or marked out boundaries for the earth? If you know of any who have done such things, then tell me their names and their children's names. (Pr 30:4 CEV)

Why do we add human ideas to God’s Word and call them holy traditions?

Every word of God proves true; he is a shield to those who take refuge in him. Do not add to his words, lest he rebuke you and you be found a liar. (Pr 30:5-6 ESV)

What two requests did Agur have and do we want the same things?

Two things I ask of You; don’t deny them to me before I die: Keep falsehood and deceitful words far from me. Give me neither poverty nor wealth; feed me with the food I need. Otherwise, I might have too much and deny You, saying, “Who is the Lord?” or I might have nothing and steal, profaning the name of my God. (Pr 30:7-9 HCSB)

What can happen if we disparage a fellow employee to the boss?

Don’t lie about a servant to his master, or that servant will curse you and you will pay for it. (Pr 30:10 ISV)

What does a generation look like that dishonors parents, is self-righteous but evil, arrogant and treads on the poor?

There is a generation that curseth their father, and doth not bless their mother. There is a generation that are pure in their own eyes, and yet is not washed from their filthiness. There is a generation, O how lofty are their eyes! and their eyelids are lifted up. There is a generation, whose teeth are as swords, and their jaw teeth as knives, to devour the poor from off the earth, and the needy from among men. (Pr 30:11-14 KJV)

What four ravenous things in this world seem to never end?

The leech has two daughters, “Give,” “Give.” There are three things that will not be satisfied, Four that will not say, “Enough”: Sheol, and the barren womb, Earth that is never satisfied with water, And fire that never says, “Enough.” The eye that mocks a father And despises obedience to a mother, The ravens of the valley will pick it out, And the young eagles will eat it. (Pr 30:15-17 LSB)

What four things did Agur say are marvelous mysteries to behold?

There are three things which are too wonderful for me, Four which I do not understand: The way of the eagle in the sky, The way of a snake on a rock, The way of a ship in the middle of the sea, And the way of a man with a virgin. (Pr 30:18-19 NASB)

What astonishing self-deception does an adulterous woman tell herself?

This is the way of an adulterous woman: She eats and wipes her mouth and says, ‘I’ve done nothing wrong.’ (Pr 30:20 NIV)

What four things can cause the world around us to be disquieted?

For three things the earth is perturbed, Yes, for four it cannot bear up: For a servant when he reigns, A fool when he is filled with food, A hateful woman when she is married, And a maidservant who succeeds her mistress. (Pr 30:21-23 NKJV)

What can we learn from ants, the rock badger or hyrax, locusts, and lizards?

There are four things on earth that are small but unusually wise: Ants—they aren’t strong, but they store up food all summer. Hyraxes—they aren’t powerful, but they make their homes among the rocks. Locusts—they have no king, but they march in formation. Lizards—they are easy to catch, but they are found even in kings’ palaces. (Pr 30:24-28 NLT)

What can we learn from a lion, a greyhound, a billy goat and a king?

There are three things which are stately in their march, four which are stately in going: The lion, which is mightiest among animals, and doesn’t turn away for any; the greyhound; the male goat; and the king against whom there is no rising up. (Pr 30:29-31 WEB)

What should we do or say if we’ve been foolish and arrogantly exalting ourselves or bragging presumptuously?

If you’ve been foolish and arrogant, if you’ve been scheming, put your hand to your mouth, because churning milk makes curds, squeezing the nose brings blood, and stirring up anger produces strife. (Pr 30:32-33 CEB)

Who did Jesus say were faithful and wise servants?

The Lord answered: Who are faithful and wise servants? Who are the ones the master will put in charge of giving the other servants their food supplies at the proper time? Servants are fortunate if their master comes and finds them doing their job. A servant who is always faithful will surely be put in charge of everything the master owns. (Luke 12:42-44 CEV)

Are we faithful and wise servants of God? You decide!

Hezekiah's Collection 5 (Pr 29)

Why does God allow good and bad to live together for the time being? Let’s begin in Proverbs 29.

What will happen to the person who remains stubborn after many reprimands?

Whoever remains stiff-necked after many rebukes will suddenly be destroyed—without remedy. (Pr 29:1 NIV)

What happens when good people are in charge of a nation, a company, a church?

When the righteous are in authority, the people rejoice; But when a wicked man rules, the people groan. (Pr 29:2 NKJV)

Are loving wisdom and keeping company with prostitutes exact opposites?

The man who loves wisdom brings joy to his father, but if he hangs around with prostitutes, his wealth is wasted. (Pr 29:3 NLT)

What is the difference between a just national leader and one who takes campaign contributions or foreign and domestic bribes?

The king by justice makes the land stable, but he who takes bribes tears it down. (Pr 29:4 WEB)

Is insincere flattery a trap that we should avoid being swayed by?

People who flatter their friends spread out a net for their feet. (Pr 29:5 CEB)

Do sins always bring bad consequences, while right living brings joy?

Your sins will catch you, but everyone who lives right will sing and celebrate. (Pr 29:6 CEV)

Is caring for the poor a standard in both old and new covenants?

A righteous man knows the rights of the poor; a wicked man does not understand such knowledge. (Pr 29:7 ESV)

Do those who mock wisdom and cause division in public hurt or help a city?

Mockers inflame a city, but the wise turn away anger. (Pr 29:8 HCSB)

Is it even worth getting into an argument with a raging fool?

When a wise man has a dispute with a fool, the fool either rages or laughs without relief. (Pr 29:9 ISV)

Do murderers hate honest people, but do the righteous seek to save a murderer’s soul from hell?

The bloodthirsty hate the upright: but the just seek his soul. (Pr 29:10 KJV)

What is the big difference between those who say everything in their minds and those who keep their thoughts to themselves?

A fool lets out all of his spirit, But a wise man holds it back. (Pr 29:11 LSB)

How important is it for a nation’s leader to double check that his advisors are telling the truth?

If a ruler pays attention to falsehood, All his ministers become wicked. (Pr 29:12 NASB)

What do a poor person and his cruel oppressor have in common?

The poor and the oppressor have this in common: The Lord gives sight to the eyes of both. (Pr 29:13 NIV)

When a nation’s leader tells the truth about economic oppression, will his legacy last?

The king who judges the poor with truth, His throne will be established forever. (Pr 29:14 NKJV)

How important is it to discipline a child with wisdom and consistency?

To discipline a child produces wisdom, but a mother is disgraced by an undisciplined child. (Pr 29:15 NLT)

What happens when a society allows evil to grow? Who will outlive it?

When the wicked increase, sin increases; but the righteous will see their downfall. (Pr 29:16 WEB)

How important is it that we not be lazy or soft about correcting our children?

Instruct your children; they will give you peace of mind and bring delight into your life. (Pr 29:17 CEB)

When the Bible is banned what happens to law and order in society?

Without guidance from God law and order disappear, but God blesses everyone who obeys his Law. (Pr 29:18 CEV)

Will a servant respond to words alone to correct bad behavior?

By mere words a servant is not disciplined, for though he understands, he will not respond. (Pr 29:19 ESV)

How stupid is it to be hasty in our words, speaking without thinking first?

Do you see a man who speaks too soon? There is more hope for a fool than for him. (Pr 29:20 HCSB)

How can entitled arrogance grow because of how we treat an employee?

If you pamper a servant from his childhood, later on he’ll become ungrateful. (Pr 29:21 ISV)

Why does an angry man create quarrels and a quick temper lead us into sin?

An angry man stirreth up strife, and a furious man aboundeth in transgression. (Pr 29:22 KJV)

Why does pride lead to humiliation, and the opposite, that humility leads to glory?

A man’s lofty pride will bring him low, But a lowly spirit will take hold of glory. (Pr 29:23 LSB)

Is it self-destructive to partner with a criminal? Are accomplices who withhold knowledge of a crime cursed?

One who is a partner with a thief hates his own life; He hears the oath but tells nothing. (Pr 29:24 NASB)

Will cowardly fear of people and their opinions trap us? Whose opinion do we trust?

Fear of man will prove to be a snare, but whoever trusts in the Lord is kept safe. (Pr 29:25 NIV)

Why do we rely upon human governments and forget where true justice comes from?

Many seek the ruler’s favor, But justice for man comes from the Lord. (Pr 29:26 NKJV)

Are there two diametrically opposite ways of living that can never coexist?

The righteous despise the unjust; the wicked despise the godly. (Pr 29:27 NLT)

Why does God allow both good and bad to grow in the same wheatfield for now?

But he said, ‘No, lest perhaps while you gather up the darnel weeds, you root up the wheat with them. Let both grow together until the harvest, and in the harvest time I will tell the reapers, “First, gather up the darnel weeds, and bind them in bundles to burn them; but gather the wheat into my barn.” ’ (Mat 13:29-30 WEB)

Why does God allow good and bad to live together for the time being? You decide!

Hezekiah's Collection 4 (Pr 28)

From two ways of life, evil and good, which do we choose? Let’s look at Proverbs 28.

Are the wicked really cowards at heart while good people are brave?

The wicked flee when no one is pursuing them, but the righteous are as bold as a lion. (Pr 28:1 HCSB)

When sin multiplies in a land are leaders changed frequently, but with one knowledgeable and sensible leader is it stabilized?

When a land transgresses, it gains a succession of leaders, but with an understanding and knowledgeable man, its stability endures. (Pr 28:2 ISV)

When a poor person extorts other poor people, is it like a driving rain that destroys crops?

A poor man that oppresseth the poor is like a sweeping rain which leaveth no food. (Pr 28:3 KJV)

Does rejecting God’s word encourage evil, but obeying it fight against evil in the land?

Those who forsake the law praise the wicked, But those who keep the law strive with them. (Pr 28:4 LSB)

Do evil people understand even the basics of justice? What about those who seek God?

Evil people do not understand justice, But those who seek the Lord understand everything. (Pr 28:5 NASB)

Which is better: to be poor and honest or rich and dishonest?

Better the poor whose walk is blameless than the rich whose ways are perverse. (Pr 28:6 NIV)

What is the difference between a child who obeys God and one who just parties all the time?

Whoever keeps the law is a discerning son, But a companion of gluttons shames his father. (Pr 28:7 NKJV)

What is the biggest argument that God has against our current banking system?

Income from charging high interest rates will end up in the pocket of someone who is kind to the poor. (Pr 28:8 NLT)

Though a disobedient man prays, yet refuses to listen to God’s word, what does God say?

He who turns away his ear from hearing the law, even his prayer is an abomination. (Pr 28:9 WEB)

What happens to those who lead good people astray, and those who refuse to be led astray?

Whoever misleads those who do right onto an evil path will fall into their own pit, but the blameless will inherit good things. (Pr 28:10 CEB)

What is a great self-delusion of the rich? Do discerning poor see right through the fantasy?

The rich think highly of themselves, but anyone poor and sensible sees right through them. (Pr 28:11 CEV)

When good men lead do we rejoice, but what should we do when crooks are in charge?

When the righteous triumph, there is great glory, but when the wicked rise, people hide themselves. (Pr 28:12 ESV)

Which is better, to hide our sins or confess them and repent?

The one who conceals his sins will not prosper, but whoever confesses and renounces them will find mercy. (Pr 28:13 HCSB)

What happens to the person who maintains a deep reverence and respect for God and not a stubborn heart determined to sin?

Blessed is the man who always fears the Lord, but whoever hardens his heart will fall into disaster. (Pr 28:14 ISV)

No matter the system, how does a wicked government leader treat the poor?

As a roaring lion, and a ranging bear; so is a wicked ruler over the poor people. (Pr 28:15 KJV)

What does a cruel and oppressive tyrant lack? What is a related trait that actually prolongs leadership?

A leader who lacks discernment abounds in oppressions, But he who hates greedy gain will prolong his days. (Pr 28:16 LSB)

What is a natural lifelong consequence for someone guilty of murder?

A person who is burdened with the guilt of human blood Will be a fugitive until death; no one is to support him! (Pr 28:17 NASB)

Is leading an innocent life much safer than taking all kinds of dishonest and perverse risks?

The one whose walk is blameless is kept safe, but the one whose ways are perverse will fall into the pit. (Pr 28:18 NIV)

What are the results of honest hard work versus silly worthless entertainment?

He who tills his land will have plenty of bread, But he who follows frivolity will have poverty enough! (Pr 28:19 NKJV)

What are the different consequences of being an honest reliable person versus someone who chases dubious get rich quick schemes?

The trustworthy person will get a rich reward, but a person who wants quick riches will get into trouble. (Pr 28:20 NLT)

Will those who show the character flaw of favoritism do wrong even for a tiny reward?

To show partiality is not good, yet a man will do wrong for a piece of bread. (Pr 28:21 WEB)

Is cutting corners in business often a false economy, causing customers to leave?

The stingy try to get rich fast, unaware that loss will come to them. (Pr 28:22 CEB)

Although being rebuked is not always a pleasant experience, is it more beneficial in the long run than insincere praise?

Honest correction is appreciated more than flattery. (Pr 28:23 CEV)

What are the divine consequences of elder financial abuse?

Whoever robs his father or his mother and says, “That is no transgression,” is a companion to a man who destroys. (Pr 28:24 ESV)

Are we better off trusting God than starting a fight in arrogant greediness?

A greedy person provokes conflict, but whoever trusts in the Lord will prosper. (Pr 28:25 HCSB)

Is it wiser to overconfidently only trust our own ideas or to ask others for their advice?

Whoever trusts in himself is foolish, but whoever lives wisely will be kept safe. (Pr 28:26 ISV)

Is there a principle throughout both old and new covenants about how we treat the poor?

He that giveth unto the poor shall not lack: but he that hideth his eyes shall have many a curse. (Pr 28:27 KJV)

What happens when crooks are in control of the government and when they are gone?

When the wicked rise, men hide themselves; But when they perish, the righteous increase. (Pr 28:28 LSB)

Will there come a time when the wicked are permanently removed from power?

So it will be at the end of the age: the angels will come forth and remove the wicked from among the righteous, (Mat 13:49 NASB)

From two ways of life, evil and good, which do we choose? You decide!

Hezekiah's Collection 3 (Pr 27)

Do we profess wisdom or strive for humility? Let’s look at Proverbs 27.

Should we allow ourselves the arrogant attitude of bragging, praising ourselves?

Do not boast about tomorrow, For you do not know what a day may bring. Let another praise you, and not your own mouth; A stranger, and not your own lips. (Pr 27:1-2 NASB)

How heavy is the trouble caused by an ignorant fool?

Stone is heavy and sand a burden, but a fool’s provocation is heavier than both. (Pr 27:3 NIV)

Why would envy be seen as far worse than cruel anger?

Wrath is cruel and anger a torrent, But who is able to stand before jealousy? (Pr 27:4 NKJV)

We often do not enjoy open rebuke, so why is it better than a concealed love?

An open rebuke is better than hidden love! (Pr 27:5 NLT)

Are the wounds of a faithful friend much better than the fake kisses of an enemy?

The wounds of a friend are faithful, although the kisses of an enemy are profuse. (Pr 27:6 WEB)

If we’re full will we often refuse anything sweet, but if we’re hungry will anything taste good?

Someone who is full refuses honey, but anything bitter tastes sweet to a hungry person. (Pr 27:7 CEB)

Is a man who wanders from his place like a bird that wanders from its nest?

When you are far from home, you feel like a bird without a nest. (Pr 27:8 CEV)

Though we may be tempted to be offended, is honest advice from a friend actually sweet?

Oil and perfume make the heart glad, and the sweetness of a friend comes from his earnest counsel. (Pr 27:9 ESV)

Does a nearby neighbor often offer better advice in a crisis than a distant relative?

Don’t abandon your friend or your father’s friend, and don’t go to your brother’s house in your time of calamity; better a neighbor nearby than a brother far away. (Pr 27:10 HCSB)

Should we be wise and make our parents' hearts glad, so they can rebut anyone who insults the family name?

Be wise, my son, and make me happy, so I can reply to anyone who insults me. (Pr 27:11 ISV)

How important is it to have foresight about potential dangers?

A prudent man foreseeth the evil, and hideth himself; but the simple pass on, and are punished. (Pr 27:12 KJV)

Should we get security from those who guarantee a stranger’s debt, and more if he does it for foreigners who are unlikely to pay back?

Take his garment when he becomes a guarantor for a stranger; And for a foreign woman seize it as a pledge. (Pr 27:13 LSB)

How unwise is it to greet someone too loudly in the morning?

One who blesses his friend with a loud voice early in the morning, It will be considered a curse to him. (P4 27:14 NASB)

What is a spouse like that tears their marriage down with constant criticism rather than builds it up with encouragement?

A quarrelsome wife is like the dripping of a leaky roof in a rainstorm; restraining her is like restraining the wind or grasping oil with the hand. (Pr 27:15-16 NIV)

Do true friends sharpen each other’s wits for the better?

As iron sharpens iron, So a man sharpens the countenance of his friend. (Pr 27:17 NKJV)

Are workers usually rewarded by their employers for their loyalty?

As workers who tend a fig tree are allowed to eat the fruit, so workers who protect their employer’s interests will be rewarded. (Pr 27:18 NLT)

Does a man’s heart reflect who he really is on the inside?

Like water reflects a face, so a man’s heart reflects the man. (Pr 27:19 NLT)

Are most people covetous rather than satisfied with what they have?

Sheol [the grave] and Abaddon [destruction] are never satisfied; and a man’s eyes are never satisfied. (Pr 27:20 WEB)

How are we tempted to act when people praise us, humble or proud?

A crucible is for silver and a furnace for gold; so are people in the presence of someone who praises them. (Pr 27:21 CEB)

No matter what kind of punishment you give a fool, can you really change him?

No matter how hard you beat a fool, you can't pound out the foolishness. (Pr 27:22 CEV)

How important is it to take inventory of all our responsibilities?

Know well the condition of your flocks, and give attention to your herds, for riches do not last forever; and does a crown endure to all generations? When the grass is gone and the new growth appears and the vegetation of the mountains is gathered, the lambs will provide your clothing, and the goats the price of a field. There will be enough goats' milk for your food, for the food of your household and maintenance for your girls. (Pr 27:23-27 ESV)

Is the term “professor” very honest about our human arrogance, Latin for someone who declares themselves an expert?

Professing themselves to be wise, they became fools (Rom 1:22 KJV)

Do we profess wisdom or strive for humility? You decide!

Hezekiah's Collection 2 (Pr 26)

Do we hide behind flattery and lies? Let’s begin in Proverbs 26

When people promote or otherwise honor a person you know to be a fool, how do you feel?

As snow in summer and rain in harvest, So honor is not fitting for a fool. (Pr 26:1 NKJV)

Does a curse affecting a whole country or an individual always have a cause?

Like a fluttering sparrow or a darting swallow, an undeserved curse will not land on its intended victim. (Pr 26:2 NLT)

When should we answer a fool and when should we not?

A whip is for the horse, a bridle for the donkey, and a rod for the back of fools! Don’t answer a fool according to his folly, lest you also be like him. Answer a fool according to his folly, lest he be wise in his own eyes. (Pr 26:3-5 WEB)

Is relying on a fool to faithfully carry out any task like chopping off our feet, an athlete with bad legs, a sling shot with the stone tied, or thorns waved around by a drunk?

Sending messages with a fool is like cutting off one’s feet or drinking down violence. As legs dangle from a disabled person, so does a proverb in the mouth of fools. Like tying a stone in a sling, so is giving respect to a fool. Like a thorny bush in the hand of a drunk, so is a proverb in the mouth of fools. (Pr 26:6-9 WEB)

What is it like trusting a fool to reliably complete any task?

Like an archer who wounds someone randomly, so is one who hires a fool or a passerby. Like a dog that returns to its vomit, so a fool repeats foolish mistakes. Do you see people who consider themselves wise? There is more hope for a fool than for them. (Pr 26:10-12 CEB)

What kind of excuses and delusions do lazy people live with?

Don't be lazy and keep saying, “There's a lion outside!” A door turns on its hinges, but a lazy person just turns over in bed. Some of us are so lazy that we won't lift a hand to feed ourselves. A lazy person says, “I am smarter than everyone else.” (Pr 26:13-16 CEV)

What is it like to meddle in other people’s controversies or to tell lies to them?

Whoever meddles in a quarrel not his own is like one who takes a passing dog by the ears. Like a madman who throws firebrands, arrows, and death is the man who deceives his neighbor and says, “I am only joking!” (Pr 26:17-19 ESV)

How does slanderous gossip fuel a dangerous fire or seem like eating tasty food?

Without wood, fire goes out; without a gossip, conflict dies down. As charcoal for embers and wood for fire, so is a quarrelsome man for kindling strife. A gossip’s words are like choice food that goes down to one’s innermost being. (Pr 26:20-22 HCSB)

Will the malice of someone with an evil heart who pretends to care for you be revealed?

A clay vessel plated with a thin veneer of silver—that’s what smooth lips with a wicked heart are. Someone who hates hides behind his words, harboring deceit within himself. Though he speaks graciously, don’t believe him, for there are seven detestable things in his heart. Though malice disguises itself with deception, its evil will be exposed publicly. (Pr 26:23-26 ISV)

Will a trap set by evil people, eventually snap shut on them? Will false flattery eventually ruin a liar?

Whoso diggeth a pit shall fall therein: and he that rolleth a stone, it will return upon him. A lying tongue hateth those that are afflicted by it; and a flattering mouth worketh ruin. (Pr 26:27-28 KJV)

What did Jesus say to those religious leaders who hid behind lies?

You are of your father the devil, and you want to do the desires of your father. He was a murderer from the beginning, and does not stand in the truth because there is no truth in him. Whenever he speaks a lie, he speaks from his own nature, for he is a liar and the father of lies. (John 8:44 LSB)

Do we hide behind flattery and lies? You decide!

Hezekiah's Collection (Pr 25)

Though wisdom is very important, is there something far more important? Let’s begin in Proverbs 25.

Thirteen kings of Judah after Solomon, did good king Hezekiah find an extra collection of Solomon’s proverbs?

These are also proverbs of Solomon, which the men of Hezekiah king of Judah copied out. It is the glory of God to conceal a thing: but the honour of kings is to search out a matter. The heaven for height, and the earth for depth, and the heart of kings is unsearchable. (Pr 25:1-3 KJV)

How is removing the wicked from around the throne similar to refining silver?

Take away the dross from the silver, And there comes out a vessel for the smith; Take away the wicked before the king, And his throne will be established in righteousness. (Pr 25:4-5 LSB)

Which is better before a promotion, arrogant overconfidence or humility?

Do not boast in the presence of the king, And do not stand in the same place as great people; For it is better that it be said to you, “Come up here,” Than for you to be placed lower in the presence of the prince (Pr 25:6-7a NASB)

Is going to court without proper preparation or to betray a confidence a recipe for disaster?

What you have seen with your eyes do not bring hastily to court, for what will you do in the end if your neighbor puts you to shame? If you take your neighbor to court, do not betray another’s confidence, or the one who hears it may shame you and the charge against you will stand. (Pr 25:7b-10 NIV)

How important is a word fitly spoken, a rebuke in the ear of a humble listener still willing to learn?

A word fitly spoken is like apples of gold In settings of silver. Like an earring of gold and an ornament of fine gold Is a wise rebuker to an obedient ear. (Pr 25:11-12 NKJV)

What kind of messenger are we, one who faithfully delivers what we promised?

Trustworthy messengers refresh like snow in summer. They revive the spirit of their employer. A person who promises a gift but doesn’t give it is like clouds and wind that bring no rain. (Pr 25:13-14 NLT)

How should we approach someone in charge with wisdom?

By patience a ruler is persuaded. A soft tongue breaks the bone. (Pr 25:15 WEB)

How is time with a neighbor like eating honey, and what cautions should we use?

If you find honey, eat just the right amount; otherwise, you’ll get full and vomit it up. Don’t spend too much time in your neighbor’s house. Otherwise, they’ll get fed up with you and hate you. (Pr 25:16-17 CEB)

Can we trust anyone who gossips about us or makes light of our suffering?

Telling lies about friends is like attacking them with clubs and swords and sharp arrows. A friend you can't trust in times of trouble is like having a toothache or a sore foot. Singing to someone in deep sorrow is like pouring vinegar in an open cut. (Pr 25:18-20 CEV)

Is loving our enemies in good works only a New Testament command?

If your enemy is hungry, give him bread to eat, and if he is thirsty, give him water to drink, for you will heap burning coals on his head, and the Lord will reward you. (Pr 25:21-22 ESV)

Does gossip produce the same results as certain as local weather patterns predict?

The north wind produces rain, and a backbiting tongue, angry looks. (Pr 25:23 HCSB)

Do we count ourselves very blessed to have a spouse that is easy to live with and almost never nags or argues?

It’s better to live in a corner on the roof than in a house with a contentious woman. (Pr 25:24 ISV)

What is good news from afar like? What is a righteous man like who gives way to the wicked?

As cold waters to a thirsty soul, so is good news from a far country. A righteous man falling down before the wicked is as a troubled fountain, and a corrupt spring. (Pr 25:25-26 KJV)

What are those like who brag or just seek glory for themselves?

To eat too much honey is not good, Nor is it glory to search out one’s own glory. (Pr 25:27 LSB)

What is a person like who has no control or restraint over his temper?

Like a city that is broken into and without walls So is a person who has no self-control over his spirit. (Pr 25:28 NASB)

Are there some things that God cannot teach the wise, but only those with the humility of a child?

At that time Jesus said, “I praise you, Father, Lord of heaven and earth, because you have hidden these things from the wise and learned, and revealed them to little children. (Mat 11:25 NIV)

Though wisdom is very important, is there something far more important? You decide!

Wise Words 3 (Pr 24)

Upon what foundation are we building? Let’s continue the wise words and some other wise sayings in Proverbs 24.

Should we become close friends with evil people who encourage violence and trouble?

Don’t envy evil people, and don’t long to be with them. Their hearts are focused on violence, and their lips speak of trouble. (Pr 24:1-2 CEB)

Does it take wisdom and good sense to turn a house into a home filled with family treasures?

Use wisdom and understanding to establish your home; let good sense fill the rooms with priceless treasures. (Pr 24:3-4 CEV)

How is a wise man stronger than a warrior and how can he claim victory?

A wise man is full of strength, and a man of knowledge enhances his might, for by wise guidance you can wage your war, and in abundance of counselors there is victory. (Pr 24:5-6 ESV)

Is wisdom too high for a fool to even open his mouth in a city council meeting?

Wisdom is inaccessible to a fool; he does not open his mouth at the gate. (Pr 24:7 HCSB)

What reputation does someone have who plans evil and mocks people?

The person who plans on doing evil will be called a schemer [troublemaker]. Making foolish plans is sinful. And making fun of others is hateful. (Pr 24:8-9 ISV)

If we give up in troubled times, or fail to rescue those in danger of death, will we pay for our actions?

If thou faint in the day of adversity, thy strength is small. If thou forbear to deliver them that are drawn unto death, and those that are ready to be slain; If thou sayest, Behold, we knew it not; doth not he that pondereth the heart consider it? and he that keepeth thy soul, doth not he know it? and shall not he render to every man according to his works? (Pr 24:10-12 KJV)

Is wisdom sweet like honey, but with a future hope attached to it?

Eat honey, my son, for it is good, Indeed, the honey from the comb is sweet to your taste; Know that wisdom is thus for your soul; If you find it, then there will be a future, And your hope will not be cut off. (Pr 24:13-14 LSB)

Why are the wicked warned not to rob a righteous person? Who does God let fall and who rises again?

Do not lie in ambush, you wicked person, against the home of the righteous; Do not destroy his resting place; For a righteous person falls seven times and rises again, But the wicked stumble in time of disaster. (Pr 24:15-16 NASB)

When an enemy meets disaster, should we rejoice or not? Why?

Do not gloat when your enemy falls; when they stumble, do not let your heart rejoice, or the Lord will see and disapprove and turn his wrath away from them. (Pr 24:17-18 NIV)

News organizations make money causing us to fret because of evildoers, but what should we focus upon? Do we have faith in the real truth, that the wicked have no future?

Do not fret because of evildoers, Nor be envious of the wicked; For there will be no prospect for the evil man; The lamp of the wicked will be put out. (Pr 24:19-20 NKJV)

Though a human government may be led by scoundrels, should we rebel? What can happen to those who do? Did Jesus rebel against Caesar?

My child, fear the Lord and the king. Don’t associate with rebels, for disaster will hit them suddenly. Who knows what punishment will come from the Lord and the king? (Pr 24:21-22 NLT)

Wise Sayings

Let’s look at a small collection of more wise sayings finishing out Proverbs 24. Though we should not rebel against a bad king, should we go to the opposite extreme and call a bad king righteous? Instead, should we condemn sin?

These also are sayings of the wise: To show partiality in judgment is not good. He who says to the wicked, “You are righteous,” peoples will curse him, and nations will abhor him—but it will go well with those who convict the guilty, and a rich blessing will come on them. (Pr 24:23-25 WEB)

How important is honesty in business, politics and personal life? If people learn to trust our word, is it like a kiss to our neighbors instead of a stab in the back that a lie is?

Those who speak honestly are like those who kiss on the lips. (Pr 24:26 CEB)

Which comes first in life, establishing our career, our business, building our barn or starting a family?

Get your fields ready and plant your crops before starting a home. (Pr 24:27 CEV)

Is it foolish to be a false witness seeking vengeance for past wrongs?

Be not a witness against your neighbor without cause, and do not deceive with your lips. Do not say, “I will do to him as he has done to me; I will pay the man back for what he has done.” (Pr 24:28-29 ESV)

What can we learn by looking at the lifestyle consequences of a lazy person?

I went by the field of a slacker and by the vineyard of a man lacking sense. Thistles had come up everywhere, weeds covered the ground, and the stone wall was ruined. I saw, and took it to heart; I looked, and received instruction: a little sleep, a little slumber, a little folding of the arms to rest, and your poverty will come like a robber, your need, like a bandit. (Pr 24:30-34 HCSB)

Upon what foundation does the truly wise man build?

Therefore, everyone who listens to these messages of mine [Jesus] and puts them into practice is like a wise man who built his house on a rock. (Mat 7:24 ISV)

Upon what foundation are we building? You decide!

Wise Words 2 (Pr 23)

Does wisdom alone make a good person or are other attributes needed? Let’s begin in Proverbs 23.

Should we be on guard when dining with a powerful man? Can his banquet be a deception?

While dining with a ruler, pay attention to what is put before you. If you are a big eater, put a knife to your throat; don’t desire all the delicacies, for he might be trying to trick you. (Pr 23:1-3 NLT)

Is it a waste of time to wear ourselves out chasing empty temporary things like riches?

Don’t weary yourself to be rich. In your wisdom, show restraint. Why do you set your eyes on that which is not? For it certainly sprouts wings like an eagle and flies in the sky. (Pr 23:4-5 WEB)

Should we avoid eating with self-centered people whose generosity is a scam? Will your stomach turn once you realize their deceit?

Don’t eat food with stingy people; don’t long for their delicacies, because they are like a hair in the throat. They say to you, “Eat and drink!” but they don’t mean it. You will eat scraps and vomit them out. You will waste your pleasant words. (Pr 23:6-8 CEB)

Should we waste time talking to fools or will they despise the wisdom of our words?

Don't talk to fools— they will make fun of you. (Pr 23:9 CEV)

How bad is it to deliberately move a property boundary marker?

Do not move an ancient landmark or enter the fields of the fatherless, for their Redeemer is strong; he will plead their cause against you. (Pr 23:10-11 ESV)

Should we learn to discern between a true education and mere indoctrination in this world’s myths?

Apply yourself to discipline and listen to words of knowledge. (Pr 23:12 HCSB)

Is corporal punishment, administered without abuse, valid in protecting a child’s future decision making abilities?

Don’t withhold discipline from a child; if you punish him with a rod, he won’t die. Punish him with a rod, and you will rescue his soul from Sheol [the grave]. (Pr 23:13-14 ISV)

Does a parent rejoice when their child makes wise decisions and speaks what is right?

My son, if thine heart be wise, my heart shall rejoice, even mine. Yea, my reins shall rejoice, when thy lips speak right things. (Pr 23:15-16 KJV)

Should we be envious of wrongdoers or hope and trust in God’s blessing for doing things right?

Do not let your heart be jealous of sinners, But be zealous in the fear of Yahweh always. Surely there is a future, And your hope will not be cut off. (Pr 23:17-18 LSB)

What is likely to happen if we hang out with heavy drinkers and overeaters?

Listen, my son, and be wise, And direct your heart in the way. Do not be with heavy drinkers of wine, Or with gluttonous eaters of meat; For the heavy drinker and the glutton will come to poverty, And drowsiness will clothe one with rags. (Pr 23:19-21 NASB)

How good is listening to the wisdom of our parents even in their old age? Is giving them reason to rejoice a good thing?

Listen to your father, who gave you life, and do not despise your mother when she is old. Buy the truth and do not sell it—wisdom, instruction and insight as well. The father of a righteous child has great joy; a man who fathers a wise son rejoices in him. May your father and mother rejoice; may she who gave you birth be joyful! (Pr 23:22-25 NIV)

Should we trust our hearts to God and stay away from promiscuous women?

My son, give me your heart, And let your eyes observe my ways. For a harlot is a deep pit, And a seductress is a narrow well. She also lies in wait as for a victim, And increases the unfaithful among men. (Pr 23:26-28 NKJV)

Is there danger of anxiety, sorrow, fighting and suffering in drinking too much alcohol?

Who has anguish? Who has sorrow? Who is always fighting? Who is always complaining? Who has unnecessary bruises? Who has bloodshot eyes? It is the one who spends long hours in the taverns, trying out new drinks. Don’t gaze at the wine, seeing how red it is, how it sparkles in the cup, how smoothly it goes down. For in the end it bites like a poisonous snake; it stings like a viper. You will see hallucinations, and you will say crazy things. You will stagger like a sailor tossed at sea, clinging to a swaying mast. And you will say, “They hit me, but I didn’t feel it. I didn’t even know it when they beat me up. When will I wake up so I can look for another drink?” (Pr 23:29-35 NLT)

Is wisdom by itself an attribute of only good people or can even a snake be wise?

Behold, I send you out as sheep among wolves. Therefore be wise as serpents and harmless as doves. (Mat 10:16 WEB)

Does wisdom alone make a good person or are other attributes needed? You decide!