Can the loving faithfulness of a monogamous groom for his one bride help us understand the love of Christ for the Church? Let’s look at Song of Songs 4.
Is this Solomon reevaluating his selfish, polygamous life and contemplating a life of faithfulness to one woman, or is this the shepherd bridegroom of his Shulamite bride speaking? Opinions are divided, so what is important to learn here about faithfulness in marriage and Christ’s love for His Church?
Behold, you are beautiful, my darling, Behold, you are beautiful! Your eyes are like doves behind your veil; Your hair is like a flock of goats That have leapt down from Mount Gilead. Your teeth are like a flock of newly shorn ewes Which have come up from their washing, All of which bear twins, And not one among them has lost her young. Your lips are like a scarlet thread, And your mouth is lovely. Your temples are like a slice of a pomegranate Behind your veil. Your neck is like the tower of David, Built with rows of stones On which are hung one thousand shields, All the small shields of the mighty men. Your two breasts are like two fawns, Twins of a gazelle Which feed among the lilies. Until the day breathes And the shadows flee, I will go my way to the mountain of myrrh And to the hill of frankincense. (Song 4:1-6 LSB)
How is this ideal bridegroom more like a faithful husband and like Christ’s love for the Church than the fickle, regretful polygamy of Solomon?
You are altogether beautiful, my darling, And there is no blemish on you. Come with me from Lebanon, my bride, You shall come with me from Lebanon. You shall come down from the summit of Amana, From the summit of Senir and Hermon, From the dens of lions, From the mountains of leopards. You have enchanted my heart, my sister, my bride; You have enchanted my heart with a single glance of your eyes, With a single strand of your necklace. How beautiful is your love, my sister, my bride! How much sweeter is your love than wine, And the fragrance of your oils Than that of all kinds of balsam oils! Your lips drip honey, my bride; Honey and milk are under your tongue, And the fragrance of your garments is like the fragrance of Lebanon. A locked garden is my sister, my bride, A locked spring, a sealed fountain. Your branches are an orchard of pomegranates With delicious fruits, henna with nard plants, Nard and saffron, spice reed and cinnamon, With all the trees of frankincense, Myrrh, and aloes, along with all the finest balsam oils. You are a garden spring, A well of fresh water, And flowing streams from Lebanon. (Song 4:7-15 NASB)
How does the bride answer her lover, her husband? Do we invite Christ into our churches with such love?
Awake, north wind, and come, south wind! Blow on my garden, that its fragrance may spread everywhere. Let my beloved come into his garden and taste its choice fruits. (Song 4:16 NIV)
How did Jesus set the example for every man, of a loving husband to His Bride, the Church?
Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. (Eph 5:25-28 NKJV)
Can the loving faithfulness of a monogamous groom for his one bride help us understand the love of Christ for the Church? You decide!
A Bride's Dream (Song of Songs 3)
Do we dream faithfully of our one spouse on earth? Does monogamous marital loyalty mirror our devotion to Christ? Let’s look at Song of Songs 3.
Did the Bride dream of looking for her Bridegroom? Do we dream of meeting Christ face to face some day?
Upon my bed, night after night, I looked for the one whom I love with all my heart. I looked for him but couldn’t find him. “I will rise now and go all around the city, through the streets and the squares. I will look for the one whom I love with all my heart.” I looked for him but couldn’t find him. (Song 3:1-2 CEB)
Did she finally find him after asking the night security guards? Is Jesus the cornerstone of our faith?
I even asked the guards patrolling the town, “Have you seen the one I love so much?” Right after that, I found him. I held him and would not let go until I had taken him to the home of my mother. (Song 3:3-4 CEV)
Does the Bride warn other women not to allow love to awaken in their hearts too early, but to wait for that one right person?
I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem, by the gazelles or the does of the field, that you not stir up or awaken love until it pleases. (Song 3:5 ESV)
Did that warning include Solomon, carried on a royal sedan chair, guarded by 60 warriors, an extremely wise but equally selfish man, not satisfied with one faithful wife?
What is this coming up from the wilderness like columns of smoke, scented with myrrh and frankincense from every fragrant powder of the merchant? It is Solomon’s royal litter surrounded by 60 warriors from the mighty of Israel. All of them are skilled with swords and trained in warfare. Each has his sword at his side to guard against the terror of the night. (Song 3:6-8 HCSB)
Would a thousand fancy wedding days to Solomon distract our Bride from her one true love? Would the impressive riches of this world distract us from the love of Christ?
King Solomon made the sedan chair for himself from the trees of Lebanon. He made its posts of silver, its back of gold. Its seat was purple, and its interior was lovingly inlaid by the young women of Jerusalem. Come out, young women of Zion, and see King Solomon with the crown with which his mother crowned him on his wedding day—his day of great delight. (Song 3:9-11 ISV)
Will we allow temptation to make us unfaithful to just one earthly spouse? Does God’s creation reveal a glory greater than any short-lived grandeur tempting us away from our loyalty to Christ?
Consider the lilies how they grow: they toil not, they spin not; and yet I say unto you, that Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. (Luke 12:27 KJV)
Do we dream faithfully of our one spouse on earth? Does monogamous marital loyalty mirror our devotion to Christ? You decide!
Did the Bride dream of looking for her Bridegroom? Do we dream of meeting Christ face to face some day?
Upon my bed, night after night, I looked for the one whom I love with all my heart. I looked for him but couldn’t find him. “I will rise now and go all around the city, through the streets and the squares. I will look for the one whom I love with all my heart.” I looked for him but couldn’t find him. (Song 3:1-2 CEB)
Did she finally find him after asking the night security guards? Is Jesus the cornerstone of our faith?
I even asked the guards patrolling the town, “Have you seen the one I love so much?” Right after that, I found him. I held him and would not let go until I had taken him to the home of my mother. (Song 3:3-4 CEV)
Does the Bride warn other women not to allow love to awaken in their hearts too early, but to wait for that one right person?
I adjure you, O daughters of Jerusalem, by the gazelles or the does of the field, that you not stir up or awaken love until it pleases. (Song 3:5 ESV)
Did that warning include Solomon, carried on a royal sedan chair, guarded by 60 warriors, an extremely wise but equally selfish man, not satisfied with one faithful wife?
What is this coming up from the wilderness like columns of smoke, scented with myrrh and frankincense from every fragrant powder of the merchant? It is Solomon’s royal litter surrounded by 60 warriors from the mighty of Israel. All of them are skilled with swords and trained in warfare. Each has his sword at his side to guard against the terror of the night. (Song 3:6-8 HCSB)
Would a thousand fancy wedding days to Solomon distract our Bride from her one true love? Would the impressive riches of this world distract us from the love of Christ?
King Solomon made the sedan chair for himself from the trees of Lebanon. He made its posts of silver, its back of gold. Its seat was purple, and its interior was lovingly inlaid by the young women of Jerusalem. Come out, young women of Zion, and see King Solomon with the crown with which his mother crowned him on his wedding day—his day of great delight. (Song 3:9-11 ISV)
Will we allow temptation to make us unfaithful to just one earthly spouse? Does God’s creation reveal a glory greater than any short-lived grandeur tempting us away from our loyalty to Christ?
Consider the lilies how they grow: they toil not, they spin not; and yet I say unto you, that Solomon in all his glory was not arrayed like one of these. (Luke 12:27 KJV)
Do we dream faithfully of our one spouse on earth? Does monogamous marital loyalty mirror our devotion to Christ? You decide!
A Bride's Praise (Song of Songs 2)
How much do we love our spouse? How much do we love Jesus? Let’s look at Song of Songs 2.
How does the Bride describe the love of her husband for her?
I am the rose of Sharon, and the lily of the valleys. (Song 2:1 KJV)
How does the husband respond to His Bride’s description of His love for her?
Like a lily among the thorns, So is my darling among the daughters. (Song 2:2 LSB)
How does the Bride describe her love for her lover, her husband? Is our marriage like this?
Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest, So is my beloved among the young men. In his shade I took great delight and sat down, And his fruit was sweet to my taste. He has brought me to his banquet hall, And his banner over me is love. Refresh me with raisin cakes, Sustain me with apples, Because I am lovesick. His left hand is under my head, And his right hand embraces me. (Song 2:3-6 NASB)
How considerate are we in our marriage? Is the Bride quiet while her young husband sleeps, not wanting to disturb Him?
Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you by the gazelles and by the does of the field: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires. (Song 2:7 NIV)
How does the Bride picture her husband coming to her?
Ah, I hear my lover coming! He is leaping over the mountains, bounding over the hills. My lover is like a swift gazelle or a young stag. Look, there he is behind the wall, looking through the window, peering into the room. (Song 2:8-9 NLT)
What did her beloved Husband suggest to His dear wife?
My beloved spoke, and said to me, “Rise up, my love, my beautiful one, and come away. For behold, the winter is past. The rain is over and gone. The flowers appear on the earth. The time of the singing has come, and the voice of the turtledove is heard in our land. The fig tree ripens her green figs. The vines are in blossom. They give out their fragrance. Arise, my love, my beautiful one, and come away.” (Song 2:10-13 WEB)
Does the Bride request of her Husband to see Him, to have Him perform a small task?
My dove—in the rock crevices, hidden in the cliff face—let me catch sight of you; let me hear your voice! The sound of your voice is sweet, and the sight of you is lovely.” Catch foxes for us—those little foxes that spoil vineyards, now that our vineyards are in bloom! (Song 2:14-15 CEB)
Does the young Bride desire to watch like seeing a deer as her Husband returns to her?
My lover is mine, and I am his. He browses among the lilies. Before the dawn breezes blow and the night shadows flee, return to me, my love, like a gazelle or a young stag on the rugged mountains. (Song 2:16-17 NLT)
How much ought we, as members of the Church that Jesus will marry, love Jesus?
If you love your father or mother or even your sons and daughters more than me, you are not fit to be my disciples. (Mat 10:37)
How much do we love our spouse? How much do we love Jesus? You decide!
How does the Bride describe the love of her husband for her?
I am the rose of Sharon, and the lily of the valleys. (Song 2:1 KJV)
How does the husband respond to His Bride’s description of His love for her?
Like a lily among the thorns, So is my darling among the daughters. (Song 2:2 LSB)
How does the Bride describe her love for her lover, her husband? Is our marriage like this?
Like an apple tree among the trees of the forest, So is my beloved among the young men. In his shade I took great delight and sat down, And his fruit was sweet to my taste. He has brought me to his banquet hall, And his banner over me is love. Refresh me with raisin cakes, Sustain me with apples, Because I am lovesick. His left hand is under my head, And his right hand embraces me. (Song 2:3-6 NASB)
How considerate are we in our marriage? Is the Bride quiet while her young husband sleeps, not wanting to disturb Him?
Daughters of Jerusalem, I charge you by the gazelles and by the does of the field: Do not arouse or awaken love until it so desires. (Song 2:7 NIV)
How does the Bride picture her husband coming to her?
Ah, I hear my lover coming! He is leaping over the mountains, bounding over the hills. My lover is like a swift gazelle or a young stag. Look, there he is behind the wall, looking through the window, peering into the room. (Song 2:8-9 NLT)
What did her beloved Husband suggest to His dear wife?
My beloved spoke, and said to me, “Rise up, my love, my beautiful one, and come away. For behold, the winter is past. The rain is over and gone. The flowers appear on the earth. The time of the singing has come, and the voice of the turtledove is heard in our land. The fig tree ripens her green figs. The vines are in blossom. They give out their fragrance. Arise, my love, my beautiful one, and come away.” (Song 2:10-13 WEB)
Does the Bride request of her Husband to see Him, to have Him perform a small task?
My dove—in the rock crevices, hidden in the cliff face—let me catch sight of you; let me hear your voice! The sound of your voice is sweet, and the sight of you is lovely.” Catch foxes for us—those little foxes that spoil vineyards, now that our vineyards are in bloom! (Song 2:14-15 CEB)
Does the young Bride desire to watch like seeing a deer as her Husband returns to her?
My lover is mine, and I am his. He browses among the lilies. Before the dawn breezes blow and the night shadows flee, return to me, my love, like a gazelle or a young stag on the rugged mountains. (Song 2:16-17 NLT)
How much ought we, as members of the Church that Jesus will marry, love Jesus?
If you love your father or mother or even your sons and daughters more than me, you are not fit to be my disciples. (Mat 10:37)
How much do we love our spouse? How much do we love Jesus? You decide!
A Bride's Love (Song 1)
Is the greatest song ever written, one that pictures the marriage of the Lamb to His Bride the Church? Let’s begin in Song of Songs 1.
Does this most excellent of songs picture Jesus and His love for us, His Bride?
The song of songs, which is Solomon’s. Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth—For your love is better than wine. Because of the fragrance of your good ointments, Your name is ointment poured forth; Therefore the virgins love you. Draw me away! We will run after you. The king has brought me into his chambers. We will be glad and rejoice in you. We will remember your love more than wine. (Song 1:1-4 NKJV)
Though the Church is darkened by persecution and the abuse of forced labor, is she still beautiful to Her Savior?
I am dark but beautiful, O women of Jerusalem—dark as the tents of Kedar, dark as the curtains of Solomon’s tents. Don’t stare at me because I am dark—the sun has darkened my skin. My brothers were angry with me; they forced me to care for their vineyards, so I couldn’t care for myself—my own vineyard. (Song 1:5-6 NLT)
Does the Church seek the companionship of Jesus during the heat of the day?
Tell me, you whom my soul loves, where you graze your flock, where you rest them at noon; for why should I be as one who is veiled beside the flocks of your companions? (Song 1:7 WEB)
Does Jesus welcome the companionship of His Bride and tell the Church how to find Him?
If you don’t know your way, most beautiful of women, then follow the tracks of the herds and graze your little goats by the tents of the shepherds. I picture you, my dearest, as a mare among Pharaoh’s chariots! Lovely are your cheeks, adorned with ear hoops; your neck, with beads. Let’s make hoops of gold beaded with silver for you! (Song 1:8-11 CEB)
Do we see the companionship of Jesus in our daily lives as perfume on our chest?
My king, while you were on your couch, my aroma was a magic charm. My darling, you are perfume between my breasts; you are flower blossoms from the gardens of En-Gedi. (Song 1:12-14 CEV)
Do we see through the eyes of Jesus as He looks upon His Bride, the Church, as beautiful?
Behold, you are beautiful, my love; behold, you are beautiful; your eyes are doves. (Song 1:15 ESV)
Do we enjoy meeting with Jesus even in the humblest of Church buildings, the house of the Lord, as a beautiful place?
How handsome you are, my love. How delightful! Our bed is lush with foliage; the beams of our house are cedars, and our rafters are cypresses. (Song 1:16-17 HCSB)
Do we understand the love that Jesus has for His Church, or do we insult Him by constantly criticizing her?
Let us rejoice, be glad, and give him glory, because the marriage of the lamb has come and his bride has made herself ready. (Rev 19:7 ISV)
Is the greatest song ever written one that pictures the marriage of the Lamb to His Bride the Church? You decide!
Does this most excellent of songs picture Jesus and His love for us, His Bride?
The song of songs, which is Solomon’s. Let him kiss me with the kisses of his mouth—For your love is better than wine. Because of the fragrance of your good ointments, Your name is ointment poured forth; Therefore the virgins love you. Draw me away! We will run after you. The king has brought me into his chambers. We will be glad and rejoice in you. We will remember your love more than wine. (Song 1:1-4 NKJV)
Though the Church is darkened by persecution and the abuse of forced labor, is she still beautiful to Her Savior?
I am dark but beautiful, O women of Jerusalem—dark as the tents of Kedar, dark as the curtains of Solomon’s tents. Don’t stare at me because I am dark—the sun has darkened my skin. My brothers were angry with me; they forced me to care for their vineyards, so I couldn’t care for myself—my own vineyard. (Song 1:5-6 NLT)
Does the Church seek the companionship of Jesus during the heat of the day?
Tell me, you whom my soul loves, where you graze your flock, where you rest them at noon; for why should I be as one who is veiled beside the flocks of your companions? (Song 1:7 WEB)
Does Jesus welcome the companionship of His Bride and tell the Church how to find Him?
If you don’t know your way, most beautiful of women, then follow the tracks of the herds and graze your little goats by the tents of the shepherds. I picture you, my dearest, as a mare among Pharaoh’s chariots! Lovely are your cheeks, adorned with ear hoops; your neck, with beads. Let’s make hoops of gold beaded with silver for you! (Song 1:8-11 CEB)
Do we see the companionship of Jesus in our daily lives as perfume on our chest?
My king, while you were on your couch, my aroma was a magic charm. My darling, you are perfume between my breasts; you are flower blossoms from the gardens of En-Gedi. (Song 1:12-14 CEV)
Do we see through the eyes of Jesus as He looks upon His Bride, the Church, as beautiful?
Behold, you are beautiful, my love; behold, you are beautiful; your eyes are doves. (Song 1:15 ESV)
Do we enjoy meeting with Jesus even in the humblest of Church buildings, the house of the Lord, as a beautiful place?
How handsome you are, my love. How delightful! Our bed is lush with foliage; the beams of our house are cedars, and our rafters are cypresses. (Song 1:16-17 HCSB)
Do we understand the love that Jesus has for His Church, or do we insult Him by constantly criticizing her?
Let us rejoice, be glad, and give him glory, because the marriage of the lamb has come and his bride has made herself ready. (Rev 19:7 ISV)
Is the greatest song ever written one that pictures the marriage of the Lamb to His Bride the Church? You decide!
Our Duty (Ecclesiastes 12)
Who should we remember all the days of our lives as our whole duty? Let’s look at Ecclesiastes 12.
Should we remember God before our eyes grow dim, before the silver cord possibly holding body and soul together or perhaps our spinal cord is broken, and our bodies return to dust?
Remember your creator in your prime, before the days of trouble arrive, and those years, about which you’ll say, “I take no pleasure in these”—before the sun and the light grow dark, the moon and the stars too, before the clouds return after the rain; on the day when the housekeepers tremble and the strong men stoop; when the women who grind stop working because they’re so few, and those who look through the windows grow dim; when the doors to the street are shut, when the sound of the mill fades, the sound of the bird rises, and all the singers come down low; when people are afraid of things above and of terrors along the way; when the almond tree blanches, the locust droops, and the caper-berry comes to nothing; when the human goes to the eternal abode, with mourners all around in the street; before the silver cord snaps and the gold bowl shatters; the jar is broken at the spring and the wheel is crushed at the pit; before dust returns to the earth as it was before and the life-breath returns to God who gave it. (Ecc 12:1-7 CEB)
What are words of wisdom like and how important are they compared to any other teachings?
I was a wise teacher with much understanding, and I collected a number of proverbs that I had carefully studied. Then I tried to explain these things in the best and most accurate way. Words of wisdom are like the stick a farmer uses to make animals move. These sayings come from a shepherd, and they are like nails that fasten things together. My child, I warn you to stay away from any teachings except these. There is no end to books, and too much study will wear you out. (Ecc 12:9-12 CEV)
What is the whole duty of mankind? Who will judge everyone?
The end of the matter; all has been heard. Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the whole duty of man. For God will bring every deed into judgment, with every secret thing, whether good or evil. (Ecc 12:13-14 ESV)
In one sense has judgement already begun and who is facing that judgment?
For the time has come for judgment to begin with God’s household, and if it begins with us, what will the outcome be for those who disobey the gospel of God? (1 Peter 4:17 HCSB)
Who should we remember all the days of our lives as our whole duty? You decide!
Should we remember God before our eyes grow dim, before the silver cord possibly holding body and soul together or perhaps our spinal cord is broken, and our bodies return to dust?
Remember your creator in your prime, before the days of trouble arrive, and those years, about which you’ll say, “I take no pleasure in these”—before the sun and the light grow dark, the moon and the stars too, before the clouds return after the rain; on the day when the housekeepers tremble and the strong men stoop; when the women who grind stop working because they’re so few, and those who look through the windows grow dim; when the doors to the street are shut, when the sound of the mill fades, the sound of the bird rises, and all the singers come down low; when people are afraid of things above and of terrors along the way; when the almond tree blanches, the locust droops, and the caper-berry comes to nothing; when the human goes to the eternal abode, with mourners all around in the street; before the silver cord snaps and the gold bowl shatters; the jar is broken at the spring and the wheel is crushed at the pit; before dust returns to the earth as it was before and the life-breath returns to God who gave it. (Ecc 12:1-7 CEB)
What are words of wisdom like and how important are they compared to any other teachings?
I was a wise teacher with much understanding, and I collected a number of proverbs that I had carefully studied. Then I tried to explain these things in the best and most accurate way. Words of wisdom are like the stick a farmer uses to make animals move. These sayings come from a shepherd, and they are like nails that fasten things together. My child, I warn you to stay away from any teachings except these. There is no end to books, and too much study will wear you out. (Ecc 12:9-12 CEV)
What is the whole duty of mankind? Who will judge everyone?
The end of the matter; all has been heard. Fear God and keep his commandments, for this is the whole duty of man. For God will bring every deed into judgment, with every secret thing, whether good or evil. (Ecc 12:13-14 ESV)
In one sense has judgement already begun and who is facing that judgment?
For the time has come for judgment to begin with God’s household, and if it begins with us, what will the outcome be for those who disobey the gospel of God? (1 Peter 4:17 HCSB)
Who should we remember all the days of our lives as our whole duty? You decide!
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