Bad Choices (Pr 6)

What wisdom should we seek in dealing with topics like debt, laziness, wickedness, seven things God hates, and adultery? Let’s survey Proverbs 6.

Is putting up security for someone else’s debt a dangerous financial trap?

My son, if you have put up security for your neighbor, if you have shaken hands in pledge for a stranger, you have been trapped by what you said, ensnared by the words of your mouth. So do this, my son, to free yourself, since you have fallen into your neighbor’s hands: Go—to the point of exhaustion—and give your neighbor no rest! Allow no sleep to your eyes, no slumber to your eyelids. Free yourself, like a gazelle from the hand of the hunter, like a bird from the snare of the fowler. (Pr 6:1-5 NIV)

What can a lazy person learn from the busy activity of an ant colony?

Go to the ant, you sluggard! Consider her ways and be wise, Which, having no captain, Overseer or ruler, Provides her supplies in the summer, And gathers her food in the harvest. How long will you slumber, O sluggard? When will you rise from your sleep? A little sleep, a little slumber, A little folding of the hands to sleep—So shall your poverty come on you like a prowler, And your need like an armed man. (Pr 6:6-11 NKJV)

What are some of the telltale signs warning us that a person is not to be trusted? What destination do wicked people face?

What are worthless and wicked people like? They are constant liars, signaling their deceit with a wink of the eye, a nudge of the foot, or the wiggle of fingers. Their perverted hearts plot evil, and they constantly stir up trouble. But they will be destroyed suddenly, broken in an instant beyond all hope of healing. (Pr 6:12-15 NLT)

What are seven commonly found things in our society that God hates?

There are six things which Yahweh hates; yes, seven which are an abomination to him: arrogant eyes, a lying tongue, hands that shed innocent blood, a heart that devises wicked schemes, feet that are swift in running to mischief, a false witness who utters lies, and he who sows discord among brothers. (Pr 6:16-19 WEB)

Do even the worst parents teach at least some things that are valuable?

My son, keep your father’s command; don’t abandon your mother’s instruction. Bind them on your heart for all time; fasten them around your neck. When you walk around, they will lead you; when you lie down, they will protect you; when you awake, they will occupy your attention. The commandment is a lamp and instruction a light; corrective teaching is the path of life. (Pr 6:20-23 CEB)

Did our parents' rules teach us to be faithful in marriage? Does adultery begin with lust? What does it cost?

They will protect you from the flattering words of someone else's wife. Don't let yourself be attracted by the charm and lovely eyes of someone like that. A woman who sells her love can be bought for as little as the price of a meal. But making love to another man's wife will cost you everything. If you carry burning coals, you burn your clothes; if you step on hot coals, you burn your feet. And if you go to bed with another man's wife, you pay the price. (Pr 6:24-29 CEV)

How foolish is adultery? Is it more despised than theft?

People do not despise a thief if he steals to satisfy his appetite when he is hungry, but if he is caught, he will pay sevenfold; he will give all the goods of his house. He who commits adultery lacks sense; he who does it destroys himself. He will get wounds and dishonor, and his disgrace will not be wiped away. For jealousy makes a man furious, and he will not spare when he takes revenge. He will accept no compensation; he will refuse though you multiply gifts. (Pr 6:30-35 ESV)

What is the consequence of sin and how did Jesus provide a way to escape it?

For the wages of sin is death, but the gift of God is eternal life in Christ Jesus our Lord. (Rom 6:23 HCSB)

What wisdom should we seek in dealing with topics like debt, laziness, wickedness, seven things God hates, and adultery? You decide!